Is it normal to be so confused between two people?

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I've been dating a guy for the past 4 years and truly thought I was happy until I met another guy 6 months ago. This guy has been a 2nd bf to me and we've done everything together. Being with him showed me how my bf really wasn't showing me the love and attention I needed. I told my bf I have been seeing someone else expecting him to walk away but he's decided to stick around and fight for us and he claims that he has changed and even told me that 2 years ago he cheated on me too and had this similar problem but chose me, so I never knew about it till recently. And the other guy says he loves me and I feel like I connect with him better and get along better and he wants to stay around and fight for me. So this just leaves me stuck. I feel like who I truly love should be obvious but it's not. I'm stumped and don't know what to do. I need a push in the right direction because I don't ever want to cheat again! Idk if anyone else has ever dealt with something like this.

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  • ebonysky
    11 years ago

    The grass always looks greener on the other side. You've only known this guy for six months and I'm sure you have been telling him all about your relationship and what you are lacking in it. Slow down. He may just be trying to use you as a notch on his belt. Stick with the bf. he knows you and wants to be with you. This guy is willing to tell you what you want to hear to be with you and may be a wolf in sheep's clothing

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Bin the old one. He was ready to leave you after 2 years by cheating on you! God help you after 20 years!

    Follow your heart and give this new one a chance coz if you'd wanted to stay with the first one you would never have looked at the second! Anyway, the first one is clinging on out of ownership not love.

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  • bigtoy
    12 years ago

    Love triangle - been there, too. I chosse the one I'd been with longer and regret it to this day.

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  • mumbum
    12 years ago

    Tricky!!

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