Is it normal to be so boy crazy?

I'm in a relationship but my boy craziness will never go away well probably later but not anytime soon. I'm just 21 and I have that young spirit where if something gives me that exciting feeling I get attached and all I wanna do is pursue that feeling hence boys. However, I already tried being single after breaking up with my bf and I didn't like it. I'm not the type anymore to mess around for a while, I like something stable. So I'm back with my bf knowin what I want now which is to be with him but being long distance for now does make me feel more free. I tend to be flirty but cause that's all I can do. I mean if a guy attracts me I'm like a little kid, I get these sparks and wanna play with them but since I can't I honestly just have fantasies what it would be like with that guy. Obviously it's not as bad as cheating but it could still be considered wrong yet I still do it cause it's safer. What doesn't help either is my bf isn't the type I usually go for but because he's so sincere and I do love him and he's my best friend I'm with him. Then all these guys who are my type come my way. It's hard being in thi relationship and I know if I let him go again I'm just gonna go back running to him unless I found another guy who is my type AND gives me the comfort my bf gives me.

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  • DubstepismyMJ

    "It's hard being in thi relationship and I know if I let him go again I'm just gonna go back running to him unless I found another guy who is my type AND gives me the comfort my bf gives me."

    Emphasis on the word "UNLESS"
    It sounds to me like your leading him on.
    And basically you know your gonna leave him when you find that person that fits your bill.

    So are you just keeping him around just incase you dont find that "person". That would be kind of selfish.
    Is being single That unbearable that youd be willing to lead someone on.

    -"So I'm back with my bf knowin what I want now which is to be with him" +

    -"....unless I found another guy who is my type AND gives me the comfort my bf gives me."=

    CONTRADICTION. Stop lieing to yourself. You know what you want. You have a type. And its not your bf

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    • What If the right guy for you isn't your "type?" which is what I've noticed about being with him. He's a good bf and my best friend but he's not my type. So what if he's not my type? If he's good to me and I like bein with him, then maybe "my type" is not the right person for me like I think. Im not leading him on because that's why I broke up with him in the first place to not do that but now that we're back, rather than looking for my type which it seems like im doing, I meant in general I'm boy crazy. I don't know it's complicated cause like I said he migh not be my type but he might be the right one for me.

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  • bihubby

    Cuckold him. I love it.

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  • dybex

    Stop messing guys about. If you want to play around, that's ok, but don't have a serious BF. If you want a serious BF then be true to him alone.

    Long distance relationships are so BS.

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  • andiforoncedonthatehumans

    Keep losing hope for todays girls...

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    • Why? If they put out alot they get better at making sex.

      I like a girl who knows what she's doing.

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    • Just have sex with guys.

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      • andiforoncedonthatehumans

        Well im not into guys... so do i stick with my hand?

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Ok boyz for you is a big nono now unless you want to get arrested.

    Go for menz instead.

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