Is it normal to be so angry and jealous

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Me and my ex split up about a week ago and he's already moved on to my 'best friend' who is abit of a slut to be honest. They post all this cute shit on twitter and Facebook and post pictures of themselfs cuddling in bed and it makes me so jealous and angry at the same time.. This isn't the first time she's done this and both her and my ex think I'm over reacting but it's really not fair because we just split up.. if she left it a couple weeks then go ahead but the day after we split up.. I'm trying not to snap at her but she's really making it hard.. anyone have any advice or way to get over people???

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  • mixwell
    11 years ago

    And you're friends with her because why ???

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  • RoseIsabella
    11 years ago

    With a friend like her who needs enemies. They both sound like a couple of slime balls. You're better off without the both of em. I had to dump this one friend of mine last year because she slept with a married man and then became obsessed with him. I basically wanted to vomit whenever I talked to her. I also lost two mutual friends I had shared with her because according to all of them I was "judgmental." But despite the occasional loneliness my life is much better without them. You deserve better than these two awful, selfish, thoughtless people.

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  • shakalaka
    11 years ago

    Is she really your best friend? Because I don't think good friend would do that to a good friend. You are better off without her and your ex. Stay away from them.

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  • thecoldhardtruth
    11 years ago

    I would rage

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  • Ipooprainbows
    11 years ago

    Firstly may I ask how do you consider her a best friend at all when she is merely a friend! Also just don't go on facebook or anything that's going to show those two people who arouse feelings of anger and jealousy within you. He obviously is not worth fretting about and nor is she, I would say they are both as bad as each other.

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  • ProseAthlete
    11 years ago

    The best way to get over this particular incident is to get these toxic people away from you. Unfriend them, refuse to see them, excommunicate them from your various social circles.

    As for your "best friend," she doesn't sound like much of a friend at all. She doesn't deserve your anger for being "a bit of a slut"; she deserves it for being a lot of an asshole. Friends don't get with friends' boyfriends within a week. Or a month. Or probably a year.

    You're already rid of him; now it's time to dump her.

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