Is it normal to be so angry?

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I have been married for 10 years. Recently my husband and I have been going through a rough time and it was brought to my attention that my best friend has feelings for my husband. I told my husband he was to have NO contact with her. He told me he told her he could no longer be friends with her. I asked him if he was in contact with her and he told me no. I found out he re-added her as a friend on Facebook and still texts her after I told him not to! Is it normal for me to be so angry?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I think you have a right to be upset with him. He's probably really flattered by your friend's attention.

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  • mommy3
    13 years ago

    She told my husbands brother she had feelings for him. I ended my friendship with her feeling I deserved better. He tells me nothing has happened between them but he just can't seem to let it go

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  • dummyme74
    13 years ago

    Neither of them care about how you feel. Painfull, but you must move on

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    How did it come to your attention, by the way?

    I think it's normal to be angry about this - two people that you care about and trust the most are potentially betraying you. It shows a huge lack of respect on their part. I'm not a person who is given to anger, but this situation would make me furious. I hope everything works out for you.

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  • Echoes
    13 years ago

    Two possibilities..1)if he's doing that with full intention and making sure that you find out, then I believe he's only trying -in a childish way- to make you jealous which means he still cares about you, or 2)he's slowly pushing you away. You live with him and he's your husband so you should know 1 or 2.

    Either way, don't get angry, anger only makes things worse. Get hold of yourself and talk to him calmly. Nothing on earth can solve problems as can a very good talk.

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