Is it normal to be so angry?

69% Normal
5 Comments

When a person betrays my trust in a major way, it takes a long time to get that relationship back..if at all.

In my own experience, I've had to remove the perpetrator(s) from my bubble completely and only after years am I able to attempt to re-build.

The struggle is that I'm no angel and, of course, I've done some hurting so I should forgive if I am to expect the same.

I'm just wondering if it's normal to hold a grudge (in extenuating circumstances) and if so, for how long?

Voting Results
69% Normal
Based on 49 votes (34 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 5 )
  • SpiritofHate
    13 years ago

    i remember every bad thing anyone and everyone has ever done to me I'm 19 i can remember back till about 5 i barely trust anyone and if anyone betrays my trust even a little it can never be fixed i hold life long grudges i don't know if its normal but to hell with normal there's no such thing.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Christoph
    13 years ago

    death.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • this9guy
    13 years ago

    yes, normal ... but im not saying that holding grudges is good

    in my experience (for myself & my friends/roommates), people hold grudges more when they're pissed-off about life in general. are you happy? i mean, most people aren't that happy ... but try to make your life better

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • hotchickie81
    14 years ago

    Depends on the situation, I suppose...

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • magicpears
    14 years ago

    It's normal to hold a grudge, but it's not healthy to.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0