Is it normal to be sleeping with two people?

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Me and my boyfriend broke up a few months ago because of infidelity on his part. I couldn't be hurt by him anymore so I ended it. However, we are still close friends, and our relationship is better than ever. We do occasionally sleep together, and in private he treats me like a girlfriend often. However, I have also began seeing another guy, who I have known and loved for years, and while neither of us want commitment right now, we care a lot about each other. He is also aware that I still enjoy spending time with my ex-boyfriend, and I've told him that if he sees other girls it is okay, since we live very far apart and don't see each other often. So is it normal and okay to enjoy the company of two people separately?

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Based on 110 votes (67 yes)
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  • technicallyhuman
    13 years ago

    at least you can get some :(

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  • Kookas
    13 years ago

    Yes, it's called being hot.

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  • Jeaneathean
    11 years ago

    Please don't break either of their hearts, or your own in the process. Sounds soft, I know, but take it from one who knows....

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  • belial
    13 years ago

    It all depends what you want to do. It's nice to have options but when you find your love hold on. Hanging with old partners doesn't allow you to grow new healthy relationships.

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  • Handfield
    11 years ago

    Not a good idea. Someone is going to get hurt in the process... that is absolutely certain. You deserve better then this. Friends with "benefits" never work. And if they are not ready for commitment, that means they don't love you enough to focus on you only. There's someone who will give his whole soul to you out there. You just have to be patient... You might be wasting some great opportunities to meet the perfect guy and missing your precious time with those boys. Good luck to you!

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  • Sabaky
    13 years ago

    Lol kookas

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