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Is it normal that I've never had a boyfriend? I am turning 21 this fall, and I'm only slightly eccentric. I am a modest Christian girl who has never held a guy's hand, and never been kissed. I am thin and rather pretty. I can't figure out why I can't get a decent guy.
Normal I'd say. Though I think increasing your social activities would drastically improve your odds of finding someone.
my ex bf was 20 and i too his virgintay i was 17 at the tim im now away to be 19 !!
What NotFloydzie said. Not to be rude, but today's people generally despise religious fanatics, and that's why most Christian girls end up having boyfriends later.
Personally, I would suggest you to be yourself and wait for the perfect guy. as you can see many guys would judge you before getting to know you. Just wait for the kind gentleman to show up. But by wait I don't mean literally...go out, meet people, but don't be stupid, meet people you know you can relate to, and eventually you'll find the thing you're looking for.
It's normal. There's not a minimum age at which you should have your first kiss. Plus, you're a girl, so being a virgin makes you more attractive to men.
However, if you'd like to have a boyfriend, I recommend getting more social. If there's a guy you like, ask him to hang out after school/work/church/...
It's absolutely normal. Actually, I think you're doing the right thing.
Whenever you'll meet the right guy -you'll know it, until then there's nothing to stress about.
Yes its normal. You just haven't had good luck, and it is merely that simple. Now that your an adult, you'll get yourself out there and lifes adventures will unfearl. Don't fret, take it day by day, your fine.
"and I'm only slightly eccentric".
That line, right there, is why guys should be falling at your feet. I'll never know why the world is the way it is.