Is it normal to be single for almost 4 years

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Hey people, I would really like to hear what anyone has to say about this and it would help me soo much, so just please be honest and I am sorry this is soo long. So I have been single like forever and I cant understand why? I mean I know that every guy is not gonna attracted to me becuz I pretty much have been rejected all my life, 1st)first guy I liked said I was cute but too goodie 2nd)second one liked me at first, but then decided he didnt like me becuz he found someone that he thought loked better than me 3rd) said that he he started getting feelings for me during a party but said it was the alcohol, he said I was different and nothin like the girls hes used to, that they are wild, and I'm calm, then he decided that he didnt like me after all......basically after all this I gathered doesnt make sense for me, all the guys I ever met found me attractive and cant understand why I'm till single, idk either,I mean I'm friendly, fun, and I'm very kind to all.I wonder if its becuz I'm different, I need answers

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  • coolio75650932
    11 years ago

    well most people are single till there 12 or somthing...but you...thats just...what!

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  • St.Clair59
    12 years ago

    I was the exact same way before I met my boyfriend. I hated being single, talked to some guys and had a few close calls, but looking back I'm glad I did not rush anything with them. It is tough, but the right one for you will come around someday. When he does it will all be worth waiting for in the end.

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  • Lilith1987
    12 years ago

    Have you ever considered being a lesbian?

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  • andrian007
    14 years ago

    Look, you sound like a great person, one day your time will come and the right man will come along. You need to understand firstly that just because those guys didn't ask you out, doesn't mean that they rejects your way of life.

    I have a confession to make. There are many times when I meet girls who are very pretty but I would not ask them out for dates. The girls whom I ask out for dates are very normal-looking girls who may not be very attractive. These things are pretty random andyou should never blame yourself in anyway. Your time will come! Don't worry!

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  • amazing
    14 years ago

    same here and am asked by sister evertime to the point that she now thinks the person i am dating is married or something but the truth is am single but am scared that i might not be able to love again.

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  • Thegreatestmaninallthelands
    14 years ago

    Why are you trying to rush things? It will all come in good time! I mean who cares what dudes think??? Just learn to be a strong independent woman and let the rest just settle in!

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    • dannynik08
      14 years ago

      I just feel like its somethin I'm not doin right

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  • NickNick
    14 years ago

    chill and wait for the right guy, would you?

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    • dannynik08
      14 years ago

      thanks people, I guess I am tired of bein single, cuz I been single for a long time u know? and my sister just keeps askin me time and time wheres ur boyfriend? it sort of bothers me when she does that.

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