Is it normal to be single for 3.5 years when you're 23.

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I broke up with my girlfriend 3 years ago, it broke my heart and now I don't want another girlfriend.

I've been single for over 3 years and still not over her, I still can't look at other girls.

I broke up with her when I was 19, I'm 23 now. I'm wasting my life.

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Based on 72 votes (39 yes)
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  • crazykittens
    13 years ago

    It's normal.

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  • JustDave
    13 years ago

    You are not wasting your life. I'd rather be in no relationship than stuck in a bad one. I know a hell of a lot of guys who were in a hurry to get married and wound up divorced. Pursue your interests and you'll meet someone who shares your interests.

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  • Mel
    13 years ago

    I was the same way from 17-20, except I dated lots of people (nothing serious)...in search for someone to make me love the same again. I thought Id never find true love again...but I did! Weve been together 5 yrs & are getting married. So I def suggest putting yourself out there & meeting new girls, it doesnt have to be serious but you need to start looking & figuring out that someone else WILLcome along. Just keep in mind, no love with someone compares to another...Dont compare someone to her, you might be surprised someone new has MORE qualities...that you never knew you were looking for. Good luck.

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  • pantaloonz
    12 years ago

    You are such a f'ing panzy.

    Go get laid. If I was close enough I'd smack you across the face.. HARD

    You are in your sexual prime, get banging.

    -Pantz

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    yeah. ur wasting your life by posting this.
    go get some!

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  • Snowwhitee
    13 years ago

    Pff. Indeed get over it! Like you say : Ur wasting ur life

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    There's other fish in da ocean

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  • ~L~
    13 years ago

    It's normal, but maybe you should think about moving on. I know how it feels when you lose the person you thought could be the one, but please don't get disheartened and give up on love because that won't help you. Good luck buddy.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Good god get over yourself. It's been 3 years! Move on fir Christa sakes. God I think men are more emotionally fucked up than women sometimes.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Wel, maybe she is the one for you. Fate won't let you forget her. But you should try to get back with her but if she said no then you have to let her go, tel her how u feel and tht u never stop thinking of her. But if it doesn't work, move on.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    yes its normal usually... honey u need to love your young life! when will u ever be 23 again?!! at least go out to see different people.. good luck

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