Is it normal to be single at 19?

Of course it is normal. Nevertheless, everybody has a type of a guy or a girl they like. So do you, and so do girls who find you attractive. That being said, somebody must like you. If not yet, there will be somebody who will.

Just because you percieve yourself negatively through all those things does not mean that somebody else will. We all judge ourselves much harsher than what other people would.

All those people who have bullied you are not any better than you are, or any worse either. People can change; and so can you. If there are things which you really do not like about yourself and can be changed, think about whether or not it is worth changing yourself just so you could be liked by girls who might not notice you.

By comparing yourself to other men, you are digging a deeper hole for yourself. Accept yourself the way you are. This will directly make of you a more confident guy.

Look at your horrible past as a blessing. Going through so much at a very young age is tough. This made you feel the way that you feel now, and can also be something that gives you strength to progress further.

Be strong, and constantly reassure yourself that better days are to come. If there is a girl that you like, ask her out. You never know what that girl could have been through in her life.

yes it's fucking normal. Get off your computer and go find a woman.

I think it's pretty common to not have a serious relationship or even a casual one in high school.
I also think most ladies would agree with me that men who are confident and charismatic are the sexiest. It's all about knowing yourself and being comfortable in your own skin.
I am so much more turned on by intelligent, confident men than by a hot dumb guy.
You also have to look in the right places. You won't find people who value character in a bar. There are good women out there who I am sure would love to spend time with you. Cut out the negative people in your life and replace them with new ones. (Easier said than done). We al have to clean house once in a while and it sounds like you have a lot of garbage laying around. Hang in there.

Answer:Rape.

Just never let yourself forget that things will get better! You will become somebody you are proud of, sooner than you think :) And it's definitely not a turn-off to girls. They would probably find it refreshing!

It normal. Yes girls are stupid - I was one of them once - and will date anyone with the confidence and "bad boy" persona. High school is not the place to judge yourself. It's stupid and competitive and immature, horomones running wild and people just learning "oh I can do THAT with this?!" So... eventually everyone will grow up. I know its hard now, but just think about it: in a few years all those bullies will get left behind when they realize they spent too much time on sex and not enough on school; they'll drop out, not get accepted to college, or party themselves out of school. Chill out and enjoy life! You don't need a girlfriend to define yourself. Besides, some of the most socially awkward guys I went to school with are married now, so its not like you're going to get left out. Just be yourself and someone will come along who loves you for you!
BTW, the penis size, money & all that are great, but they don't last... getting spoiled gets old if that's the only thing a girl is after. Besides, do you really want someone like that? Nah, trust me not all of us are that shallow.

:) It's normal ! But you got to go out. Find a new place with new people, so you will find someone new :) Not the same idiots and b*tches from High school.

Story of my life lol. I kind of find it funny how in highschool all the girls dated the same guys and some of them were their friends ex's.

Eharmony :D

High school is an unfair environment to meet anybody. Before I proceed to offer my insight, think about this, there is a girl out there in the exact same situation, I actually recall reading a post earlier this week about a girl in your exact same shoes. Honestly you are stressing way too much about your virginity. It will happen when it happens. Once you enter the real world you'll see that women carry themselves differently, sure you'll still have some stuck up women, but you'll also have women who care about a man's personality than his penis size. Once you enter the real world you can try to make a good living for yourself. Women are attracted to power, and men who are jerks usually have that in a social setting; however, there are women who go against the female behavior current and swim in their own direction, those are the ones that are worth taking your time to fish.