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Im fine around boys can talk away not to bad but i never know what to talk to girls about, is this normal or juat a lack of confidence
I think its hard for everyone at one time or other. If you just want sex then I guess learn the pickup artist lines and find girls that haven't heard them all a million times. If you want to make a real friend that is the other gender it's just like making friends that are the same, you have something in common and then you talk about it.
I used to be like that until I realized I was the most suave and smooth talkin guy in town.
It's normal, you are just nervous. You have to relax, like you are relaxed with boys. Girls aren't a different species, you have to acknowledge that and treat them like human beings. Try to find something in common with them to talk about. Girls usually don't like the silent type of guys, there are exceptions, but in general, you have to be confident and have something to talk about.