Is it normal to be sexually unsatisfied?

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half and we became sexually active maybe 4 months ago.
We both lost our virginities together and its probably been maybe 50 times that we have done it sence and I have only cum once and that was the first time. He lasts maybe a minute or two and I fake an orgasim and he leaves and i pleasure myself. Is this going to last forever? We are planning on living out the rest of our lives together and have a family and stuff. I'm never going to be able to have sex with a stranger or have sex with a big penis or have climaxes and have kinky crazy sex or idk...
I love him and I will always stay by his side but is It wrong of me to desire more (sexually)?

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Based on 7 votes (5 yes)
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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    Talk to him.
    I've said this TONS of times but why even BE with someone that you can't talk these sort of things through with?

    If he isn't open to change and last longer than a few fucking minutes and please his woman he doesn't deserve to have one at all.

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  • ygrowup
    10 years ago

    Communication is the key here, if he does not know what to do to fulfill your desires then he won't. Be more open with him, teach him, it's well worth the trouble. Then if he refuses to try, then you have some hard choices to make in your future

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  • Anime7
    10 years ago

    It's probably very common to feel sexually unsatisfied. But from what you said it just sounds like a lack of communication. I mean it doesn't sound like you even correct him or tell him that you're unsatisfied, like you just let him do his thing while you're sitting there feeling upset over not being satisfied, but he would have no knowledge of that since you faked it. Why even fake it anyways? You're only hurting yourself at that point. I mean I get it, you want to make him happy, and that's cool. But that's sort of one sided, try thinking of yourself you know. Tell him how you feel, try to practice more, give him some directions. If you don't tell him how you feel, then don't expect him to get better, cause in his mind he probably believes that he's doing you right since you're not complaining.

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    • bioluminescentalgae
      10 years ago

      That makes sence il try that.

      (if he thinks I didnt cum he cries)

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      • dom180
        10 years ago

        I like your username :P

        Use foreplay more. Ask him to go down on you or finger you if you can't orgasm from penetrative sex easily - it's normal not to be able to orgasm from penetrative sex. Know what makes you feel good when you masturbate and teach him what you enjoy. Foreplay might also help him to last longer.

        And you should stop letting him manipulate you by crying. You shouldn't have to live your live unhappy just to make some else feel good, so remember that just because he cries doesn't mean you shouldn't stand up for what you want. Your job is to look after yourself and make sure you are happy, not him. It's okay to break up with him if it doesn't get better.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      The little virgin who never had sex gives sex advice. The irony!

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