Is it normal to be sexually intimidated?
Have you guys seen Chasing Amy? For those who have then you'll know what this question is about.....if you haven't then here is a real life version of the movie. This girl I'm currently dating is not necessarily the love of my life or anything yet...but I'm really drawn to this one. We love to talk about anything for hours we once even debated about who started the whole fauxhawk faze for guys....that was a funny argument....with our conversation going astray we switched the subject and for some reason we started to talk about sex....especially about our ex partners. She asks me what was the naughtiest thing I've done with a girl....honestly, I love sex and all but I'm not that super naughty. I told her i once licked whip cream off my ex-girl's boobs and had some "backdoor" action...but in reality...i think EVERY COUPLE has done that...so not really original.....Her naughty thing was that she had a threeway, with her friend and her boyfriend. When she told me that...I kinda felt like...I got rejected.....I don't know why....maybe it's because deep down it's EVERY MAN's fantasy...which I have yet to, nor will I ever, accomplish....Maybe I'm jealous or maybe insecure. I just felt wierd about myself. A part of me says....damn, she did one already, maybe if I play my cards right she'll ask one of her friends to have one with us....and another part of me that says....damn, this girl is a hoe, she's definitely not a girl I can take home to mama. And another part of me that says...damn, I don't think I could please this girl. And that's the part thats irking me. I want to let it go and I will get passed it because I kinda like this girl. we have a lot of things in common...thats why we talk a lot....we've made out a lot (very pda type of girl and I'm a PDA type of guy), but we haven't had sex yet. Maybe its because of this. I know it was in her past and I've done things in the past that I'm not proud of either, but is it normal to feel sexually intimated by a girl? I know im just being overly worried but I had to ask?