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I seem to always be sexually attracted to really nerdy guys. Not the gross ones with bad personal hygine but the quiet ones that everyone seems to overlook. I don't actually want to date them though, just have sex. Is that weird?
Nerdy guys are so hot.
All my friends find me odd because I am so attracted to them.
I would kill to have a nerdy boyfriend.
Man I wish I knew girls like you irl. That would solve all my problems. It really bugs me when the girls go for all macho guys that are just idiotic jerks. I thought it would be better in first year university but it was actually way worse. Here's to hoping that girls will grow up by second year. Also girls, could you please cut us shy guys a little slack and make the first move. It takes quite awhile to build up enough courage to make a move, but we warm up quite quickly to people who show interest in us. We usually carry on pretty good conversations when given the oppurtunity too.
Nerds are fucking hot and treat you the best. Every guy that I have dated that has been a nerd was totally worth my time.
Nerds are the best in bed and in a relationship. Most of them wonder how they got such a "hotty"
I am dating the coolest nerd in the world.
We have deep meaningful scientific conversations and play video games in the same night.
I guess I am a nerd myself, but I consider it a compliment!
yesss it is sooo normal, my boyfriend is a total nerd. but that makes him so hot. and i am very sexually attracted to him beacause he is so inexperenced and i had to show him how it works lol, but he looks at my body as a prize to him and he just is so sweet when it comes down to us "doing it" he says that my lips are soft and remind him of gummy bears and he says i have hair like zelda and i mean it just is this wierd conection that we have that i wouldnt trade for the world. and actually i love learning about all these video games and everything. he is also my best friend and we are crazy for eachother still after 3 years. and i had no intentions of dating him. however people say things about that cause i was a cheerleader and everything. but i am the happiest i have ever been ever. and while everyone keeps talking and stuff he is finishing his 2 year of collage for buisness and we are getting married in october of course. so yea its totally normal and very exciteing.
Nerdy guys are HOT! Especially when they're geeking out over something or being really brainy.
I'm the same way. Something about them just really gets me going. I'd love to get with a nerdy guy... I don't mean those oh-he's-sexy-and-smart pretend preppy nerds either. I'm talking McLovin from Superbad.
I married my nerdy guy that I thought I just wanted to have sex with! He's the greatest and wouldn't trade him for anything!! So I say normal.. Nerds are the new hot! :)
I have a thing about WOW players. That's way less normal than what you like.
I am the same exact way. Most people find thi weird but they are so cute and sweet:) Theres one Im actually pursuing right now!! I am happy.
im attracted to quiet men too, and they usually make up for the reservedness in the bedroom ;)
i hate the flash "jock" type of guys, with the huge gross veiny muscles and who spend more time in the mirror that me, i'd much rather go for the skinny, pale beardy guy, any day <3
I am with a nerd girl and she is so hot in the bed! Shy in public dosen't mean shy in private ;)
In my experience this is normal. . so I will start with my mother who is no longer around. She partied herself to death in her 40s....but when I was in HS my mother was the neighborhood Mrs. Robinson. My dad is 6"4 and a former football star. My mom was a gorgeous tiny blonde woman who looked very young. It was embarrassing for me as a teenager.....but she was into teenage boys....which is not NORMAL but I think plays into the same thing.....they thought she was so hot. They made her self esteem rocket. She would sleep with these eager teenagers and it made her and then very happy. . while I was in high school I almost always had a pretty cool boyfriend... But I was always wet over the introverts in class that everyone would look past.. I found out early on that nerdy guys were a gold mine. I used to love it if I kissed a guy and he just came right then and there.. They are always ready again fast....the idea of being with you is just so hot...and it makes you feel really good. It made me feel hot. Even though the big strong guys thought I was hot....that didn't seem to matter as much... I don't know. So I've dated both....hot athletes and nerdy guys. The nerdy guys winnn. Right now I have a really tall and hot boyfriend. . but my big boyfriend is bisexual and freakier than me. We are in an open relationship, his call. He's really into porn... Some interesting stuff too... and even though he likes to tell me how beautiful I look on his arm....I have been losing self esteem. There isn't that intense natural chemistry and there never was. He has to watch porn while we have sex. .and I just want someone sometimes who is completely into me... anyways....I am 105 lbs and red headed and turn eyes but I was feeling less and less beautiful.....and then I remembered...I am in an open relationship. He wants me to be with big strong guys and tell him about it.....but this week I've decided that I just have to have this little younger boy at work. In the first half of his 20s....possibly a virgin....shorter than me...I am so good at starting this sort of thing up.. I'm a peppy flirtatious extrovert. We are the only 2 up there most of the time in a small business with a laundry room and a back office and no cameras. We've been playing an ongoing game of truth or dare and after testing the vibe.... I told this nerdy guy at work who is shorter and younger than me that I didn't want to offend him but that I was feeling intensely attracted to him and that it may be temporary and fleeting but that I have been getting wet through my work uniform considering it...and that if he was down we could fuck like rabbits all over the shop during down time until we both just were done with it. He was so happy....I love a happy nerd with a hard on. . and I found out I'd been in his nightly thoughts already and that he had even had a really hot dream about me. I can't wait to see where this goes...and I know I'm going to have to just take his hang and take the lead at first.. So far this has all been just really hot texting...I just opened this door this week...and right before days off...but soon I'm going to be getting my fill from such an eager dude and I'm going to rock his world.. He will never forget this...He is so excited that he is about to start getting completely taken care of sexually by a 6 yr older hot red head with experience...and I'm excited that I'm going to be getting "love" from someone who is so into me that they can barely contain themselves.. And I know he will not be able to contain himself.
I think women who haven't delved into the waters of nerdy men are missing out baddd. Omg I can hardly wait for this work fun to be in full swing. .
But as for an answer to the question...in my experience your attraction to nerdy guys is normal. You have found the gold mine of wonderful lovers and dreamers that most women don't consider. ❤😈
I guess they're really unpredictable and that gets me all excited (sexually). There's this nerd i keep seeing and i cant help but stare at him any time i could. Damn hot.
SO normal. There are these two super nerdy guys in my AP Physics II B class (a class I seriously regret taking, haha...) and I'm SO attracted to them. I fantasize about having sex with both of them (not at the same time) in the physics storage closet... haha I bet they would do me too, I just don't have the confidence to say anything.
Where can i get one. Ive always been attracted to shy nerdy guys...i find em mysterious ;)
Completely normal! Nerdy guys are so so attractive, when they're cute and start going on about something they're really interested in! love it! Almost all the guys im attracted to are nerdy...I guess im pretty nerdy myself, but not like full-blown geek.
I don't find this weird at all.. in fact, it seems like ALL of the men I have dated have been nerdy!
Atmastrife I beleive we have alot in Comon cause thAt is exactAly how I am exept I'm a girl
If they're clean and cute and quiet, then yes!
i love those types of nerds
they're sooo adorable!
i hate cocky guys and most nerds are sweet!
you gotta love em... :D
not at all, nerdy guys can be hot!
i like a lot of different types of guys, i dont think anything isnt normal. its just what you like. (:
You're just smart. The nerd will be devoted to you and not stray. Remember what Bill Gates said, "Be nice to the nerd. You may work for him one day."
It is kinda wierd but hey do it bone a nerd then let us know if it was good lol
by the responses here im feeling pretty good, being quite nerdy meself :)
God I hope not! I wish more people thought the same way, then maybe I wouldn't have spent all of my free time in public school haunting the library and computer-lab while the rest of the school engaged in superficial romances and lustful indulgences.
It depends on what kind of nerd he is. If he's physically hot but can't stop talking about how amazing square root is, that's a turn off. But a nerd who is intellegent, easy to have a conversation with, and has no one else to talk to, then yeah, he's attractive.
I'm a nerd, but you wouldn't know from looking at me. Most girls seem to find me attractive I dont get it.