Is it normal to be sexually attracted to a cousin or aunt or uncle?

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I have the hots for my cousin and fantasize about having sex with her. I used to have the hots for my aunt. Embarrassment and the possibility of rejection has stopped me from making advances, but if I thought I'd be successful, I would have made the approach.

I'm male and I think it's normal, but I couldn't have a relationship. 111
I'm male, I think it's normal. I could have a relationship . 71
I'm male and I think it abnormal 25
I'm female: I think it's normal, and I could have a relationship. 23
I'm female and I could have a relationship 7
I'm female: I think it's normal, but I couldn't have a relationship. 19
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  • IBMelissaG
    10 years ago

    I have a hot uncle... and I SO badly want him inside me. To feel his manhood explode in me and his sweaty body against me... mmmmmm.

    YES, it's normal!

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    • Papakinky74
      10 years ago

      Hot image melissa

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  • MarieWantsIt
    10 years ago

    What a timely question. Things cooled with my sister for a couple of weeks and then got back to normal. We simply didn't talk about it again. However, I had my nephew's phone number and sent him an sms a couple of weeks ago. I had decided to take matters in my own hands. I told him I wanted a confidential chat about something for his benefit and invited him round a week last Friday evening when my husband was out drinking with his friends.

    Dale came round. I sat on the settee next to him. I was nervous and had had a couple of drinks to steady my nerves. I put my hand on his thigh as we chatted about his work. I began to run my hand up and down, getting closer to his groin. He flushed but didn't object. I thin took his hand, lifted my skirt three or four inches above the knee, and put his hand on my leg just above the knee. He didn't resist.

    "You can stroke my leg if you want," I said. He did so. Within moments, I could see the bulge in his trousers. I won't go into detail, but it was great. He has been back twice and is coming again on Friday. Aren't I a lucky girl?

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    • Laststand
      10 years ago

      Where were you when I was younger sounds like a lucky buck haha...

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  • lorr
    11 years ago

    am having sex with my nephew my sisters son were well both of age and its best sex ever i cant have any more kids so we dont have to worry about that side of it there is alot of aunts who have had sex with there sisters son or brothers son yes no one will find out about us but whats wrong with two consulting adults having sex

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    • Laststand
      10 years ago

      well how could I make the approach without waiting for a good time to eat her out haha...so how would I bring it up in a vice-a-versa sictuation

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    • Greg1492
      11 years ago

      I would love to have my niece, but the fear of rejection and then of her telling others makes me not want to try. How did you broach the subject?

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      • lorr
        10 years ago

        hi Greg I never my nephew did we were having a drink one weekend a dozed off to wake up to his head between my legs and its been the best thing ever the sex is mind blowing every time but we were of age b4 it happened what do u feel she would do and r yous of age x

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        • Greg1492
          10 years ago

          Not sure I understand the question, but My niece is an adult and only sixteen years younger than me.

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          • lorr
            10 years ago

            Do u think your niece wants to and as long as you's are adults it's not against the law x

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            • Greg1492
              10 years ago

              I'm not sure. The problem is if I try it and she freaks out, it will sour good family relations for ever.

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  • FourAMandstillgoin
    12 years ago

    Did you know its fact we are attracted to those with similar genes to us. Theres this thing GSA genetic sexual attraction, also The westermarck effect which is when raised with someone or being raieed by someone from the ages 0-6 irreversibly desensitizes you to them so you find them sexually unattractive.

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    • Greg1492
      11 years ago

      You know that has echoes for me. I have never been attracted to my mother sexually, but I came across photos of her when she was 19 and 22. I immediately had sexual attraction. reflecting on that, I have always preferred women with medium length brow hair and brown eyes, just like my mother, but I have never been attracted to my mother in real life.

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  • Yumazing
    12 years ago

    Whatever floats your boat.

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    • dom180
      12 years ago

      Although it isn't really relavent, can I just say that I love your hair? That is all.

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      • flutterhigh
        12 years ago

        Your erection is showing, sir.

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        • dom180
          12 years ago

          I'll have you know that's a banana.

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          • flutterhigh
            12 years ago

            Phew, that makes it much less weird that I'm biting into it.

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  • Sole_Executioner666
    8 years ago

    It's actually very normal, and I agree with the poster who said the thing about genetic sexual attraction because its true. I actually cared deeply for my 2nd cousin, ever since I was 6 . This isn't just about having the hits for someone, I just genuinely care about him as a relative and as much more. And I was actually always happy he was related to me and never regretted it or found my attraction abnormal (I actually was mostly oblivious to how far my love went and that it crossed some boundary humanity put up) anyways I recently told him and he freaked out, got defensive and then cut off all connection with me (happened very recently ) I find Americans to be lucky because their families almost always take the news well or feel the same. And I mean my family is "religious" so...

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  • MarieWantsIt
    10 years ago

    I'm 42, married. My sister confided that her 19 year-old son is a virgin and shy of girls. He is a hunk and I fancy him. I told my sister that I would love to have him. She flipped and called my so many horrible names. It has soured my relationship with her. Marie

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    • lorr
      10 years ago

      Hi there was wondering if u ever did do anything with him don't see why she flipped as u were just complementing on how good looking he is. And since it soured ur relationship u would of may as well a bet he would have the time of his life x

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  • SidWilson0
    12 years ago

    Ok dude im in the same situation. Aint or Uncle? Thats pushing it...but look up on facebook Allison Cook. shes my cousin...ul see y i have the hots for her

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    • theabider
      12 years ago

      I'm sure you realize that there are probably a zillion Alison Cooks on Facebook?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Where is 'female who thinks it's weird and wrong'?!

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    • flutterhigh
      12 years ago

      Right here, apparently.

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