Is it normal to be seventeen and not be turned on *please read*
I really need some advice, because I am going insane and my girlfriend is going insane.
So first off, we have been having a great sex life. Everything sparked off from like the first month we have been dating. It has been intense and everything.
But this week, it has changed me in some way. I don't know how though and I really need help because I am going crazy thinking it's either my fault, hers or both of ours.
So, first off, she gave me an amazing blow job, and we had sex. But as soon as she and I were done I noticed my penis was hurting, super bad. I looked underneath the head and it was red and sensitive. It still is today, and the scab fell off because I guess it was cut.
Also, she keeps scaring me half to death with all these symptoms of being pregnant. She has had minor cramps, her breasts hurt, and she had a milky discharge. But all of this has happened to her, as she has said. But it still worries me to death. I never actually ejaculated into her nor did I at all, so it must be the pre-cum. (This happened the same night I had that blow job)
And, I have been sick all week too, I've had strep throat and I am wondering if that's messing with me in some way because I really haven't been horny, at all, besides me masturbating yesterday.
We tried having oral sex today but I just wasn't feeling it. Is all this pressuring me and keeps me from "getting it up"? I really need to know because I keep blaming it all on myself. I need some advice. Thank you for your time.