Is it normal to be self conscious about bottoming
I'm a bi guy but never have bottomed. I want to try but I'm really self conscious about my ass being dirty. Is it normal for the top to get some poop on their dick? Will he be grossed out?
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I'm a bi guy but never have bottomed. I want to try but I'm really self conscious about my ass being dirty. Is it normal for the top to get some poop on their dick? Will he be grossed out?
I don't understand all this crazy talk about enemas before anal sex. People don't walk around all day with a proverbial bullet in the chamber. Normally, you do not have a big block of poop anywhere near your asshole- in fact, the only time you do, is when you are feeling a strong urge to take a shit- and having the poop there is what creates that urge. I've had anal sex many times and have never experienced the dreaded shit dick. You should be safe as long as you don't feel that special i gotta poop feelin!
The way you have this worded, you imply that you have topped. So the first question to you is simple. When you topped, did you get poo on yourself?
There are different ways to go about cleaning yourself. It depends how much time and interest you have in prepping beforehand. My advice : Enema with filtered/bottled water. Tap water can have some nasties in it you don't want inside you. Infact, I strongly urge anyone doing anal intercourse to use an enema (or four) for prepping.