Is it normal to be scared to say i love you?

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So I've been with this guy for a little over two months. He's kind of awkward when it comes to relationships but he's absolutely adorable. I know I love him but I'm really not one to rush relationships & neither is he. Therefor, I'm absolutely terrified to tell him I love him. Every time I'm about to, I choke. I'm just so scared to say it because I've thought of every bad reaction there could be & I don't want to lose him because he thinks I'm controlling or obsessive or crazy. He's so hard to read & i really don't know if I should say it first or just wait.

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  • Faceless
    13 years ago

    Write the words on a piece of paper, then make a paper airplane out of it and throw it at his retina.

    He'll literally see and feel how much you love him. Your welcome.

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  • Ningelle
    11 years ago

    I clicked "No", but it wasn't true. I've noticed a lot of people think this four-letter-word thing through WAY too much. Love is not marriage. You can love everyone freely without commitment. Loving someone is not signing your life away or getting in too deep - it's just Love. People need more of it. So love the boy and say you love him, just don't be a damned fool for him!

    Of course- it really doesn't matter if you ever say it or not, because actions are far more relevant.

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  • Zeus_
    8 years ago

    Two months? Really at this point you're only dating. This isn't a bf and gf relationship.

    Wait for more than 6 months before you say it.

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  • metallover1991
    12 years ago

    It's pretty easy to say I love you. Right after my very first kiss, which was a looong French one, I immediately told the girl I loved her lol. She said the same thing back hehe.

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  • cute'lil'loser
    13 years ago

    There's different forms of love tho. Different meanings w different ppl, cuz u can't explain love urself I don't think

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    do you love me baby?

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  • DefinitelyNotNormal89
    13 years ago

    "I'm really not one to rush relationships" and "I know I love him" are a little contradicting if you've been together two months BUT I'm a heartless bitch so what would I know? If someone told me they loved me after two months, I'm going to be honest, it would scare the crap out of me.
    You must know it's too early as you literally can't say it, when it feels right you will just say it.
    The word "love" just doesn't have the same affect as it did years ago, it's thrown around a little too freely.

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