Is it normal to be scared to move in with my boyfriend

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It sounds mad but the thought of me moving out really scares me. i am 20 and have been with my boyfeiend 2 years. we get along so well and rarely argue and we are brilliant together. We have spoken about getting a house in a few years but the thought really scares me. i am worried if we will get used to eachothers ways and habbits we have. i am really comftable with my boyfriend but the thought of going to the bathroom when he is there (not in the room but in the house) for a poo really freaks me out and stupid things like that. please get back to me you thoughts or if you live with a partner, how you couped!

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  • andrian007
    14 years ago

    LOL, I like the previous comments. You know, one day you will be married and you will have to go to the toilet when your husband is in the house. Might as well get used to it now :-)

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    lol dont worry im a guy and i think hes just as nervous as u are on the whole poo deal i know i would be. when u got 2 use the bathroom just say something funny like i got to go drop some kids off at the pool or i g2g drop the browns off at the super bowl. be semi guyish thats mostly what i like in a girl (not that im semi gay or anything) but its a good feeling being around the opposite gender when u have things in common like ur sense of humor.

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    • Jen118584
      14 years ago

      Exactly, if you have a sense of humor about it, he'll appreciate your confidence. I say things like, "Pardon me, but I have to poo" and he thinks it's funny.

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  • Jen118584
    14 years ago

    Things like pooping when he's around seem embarrassing at first but the fact is, he knows you're a human being and that you do have a digestive system. After a while little things like that won't bother you anymore. It's nice living with someone you love. I can't imagine not living with my boyfriend. We have lived together pretty much since day one but that was because we lived states away and decided if we were gonna do this, I was just going to have to move with him! So I lived with him (and pooped) at the very beginning of our relationship! He said he swore that I didn't have any digestive function whatsoever for like six months because I kept so secretive about it. After a while though, it's just not embarrassing.

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  • tygeronherbed
    14 years ago

    me and my boyfriend basically live together, we are freshmen in college and if were not in class we are side by side. we shower together, we do our homework together, we eat all our meals together, smoke cigarettes together, its wonderful!!! ( i basically have him convinced that i just dont poop hahahah) weve only been together for a few months but ive never felt more loved!!!
    i say do it!!! move in with him!!!

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