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I have come close to losing it twice. One time was closer,like he was about to enter me, he was pushing against me when I chicken out. I'm just scared that it'll hurt to much.
It may hurt, but if you're well lubricated and he goes slowly it shouldn't be too bad.
If you use tampons or have ever masturbated using anything up there chances are the hymen isn't fully intact, meaning the pain will be lessened.
If you're that scared though it's a sign that you probably aren't ready. Don't feel obligated to have sex before you're ready, any decent guy will wait. If he's pressuring you then he's not worth it, and if your friends tease you then they aren't very good friends (plus, it's not their business)
Don't have sexual intercourse sweety, it's a sin & you will burn in hell for all eternity.
Seriously though Like you I am a virgin, would like to lose oit but no good, sweet, sensitive guy in sight. When the time comes it will feel right and all the fear you're feeling will be non existent. Don't rush into it chances are you won't enjoy it if you're shivering from fear.
Just stay away from the larger farm animals. And to quote "mazgan" above, Just "take it bitch." Be a good girl, not a teaser. Nobody likes a teaser. Try your father first. Or your brother. They may make it easier on you. Your mom will tell you the story of how she lost her when she was 12, I'm sure. I met her when I was 62. What a tight piece your mommy was.
Chances are, it will hurt. My advice to you, if you want to lose your virginity, purchase a dildo and practice with it. Purchase some water based lubricant and lubricate said dildo and once you get to the point where you can comfortably insert, try having sex. Use a lubricated condom and water based lubricant for best results.
Virginity is just a stupid status thing made by society. And the “intense pain” was just over dramatized to prevent the middle and high school kiddies from fucking their brains out.
Wait until you truly want to lose it not just for the pleasure. Your virginity should be given to someone you love to prove that you can surpass the pain for them. Besides girls I've fucked who were virgins just said it was like getting a decent sized cut for about 2-3 minutes before it starts feeling really good
Im a virgin and i feel so proud to still pure i hope theres a sexy smart guy out there waiting for me someday .if his a virgin its definitly a plus:)
I doubt you are scared you are just nervous which is normal. Perhaps you havent had much experience with intimacy.
It's normal to be afraid most girls are terrified but it isnt so bad. It will hurt some girls say they hardly feel it some say it hurts bad for a little while and sometimes it bleeds more or less heres how ive reduced the pain as much as possible go slow at first till you feel the hymen then stay there for a little bit slowly pull back and push foward and break the hymen kinda like taking a bandaid off hurts less the quicker you do it and then just sit there and relax for a minute and adjust and let the pain subside. Then it will feel better. this works with masturbation or with a person. Chances are you'll feel a little sore afterward. I REALLY HOPE I HELPED AND SORRY FOR THE LONG REPLY. And by the way from you main page I gotta agree with TheRedHood you do sound cute lol.
I never even came close to losing my virginity. But I really like watching and thinking about it.
1) I'm sexually repulsed. No idea why I clicked on here, but I guess I did it to myself.
2) All I can imagine is my little sister saying this, and it would just make me want to cry. Every girl is someone's daughter after all.
3) All of the other girls giving advice. I can't truly explain it, but it makes me feel sick, and oh so sad.
No, I'm not sexist, or Christian. I'm just sexually repulsed. And let me tell you, it absolutely sucks to be repulsed like this. :c
It depends on how well u can deal with pain. It may hurt alittle but its normal too feel scared losing ur Virginity, it has to be well lubricated so it dosent rub against the inside & hurt you. You may bleed alittle but some girls dont.
It is possible you will feel pain! You have to wait for the right person and the right time! Me and my boyfriend waited for a while and slowly started to try, it didnt hurt at all for me! But if u are not excited enough, or its just a random guy you dont even like, i think the change it will hurt is much bigger
i never came close to losing my virginity but i feel scared about it too.
Sex the first time is suppose to hurt. You have a haymen that will break and bleed. Which some call your cherry which they need to pop. If you are afriad you probobly are not ready. You do not have to rush into things.