Is it normal to be scared to have sex with my bf?

Dont stress about it, you will know when the time is right and it will be ok. Take it slow if you scared that he will hurt you, your vagina can stretch to take his cock. If he loves you, which I'm sure he does, then you have no fear of him leaving you. If sex was all he wanted from you, he would have left you long ago

Everyone else said what I wanted to say but look at it this way - A baby can come out of there. A cock can easily fit in.

If you are comfortable with him, and the relationship you guys built, having sex for the first time should (in theory) be the best thing ever. So ask yourself: Do I have deep feelings for him? Does he deserve me? etcetc.

If your convinced you have a stable, loving, and supportive relationship,...the problem is you.

Do you compare yourself to other girls often?
Do you not like your personality/body?
Do you love your self?
Have you been abandoned and/or are afraid of abandonment?
Ask yourself these kinds of questions, and find out what your really scared of...

You started off saying that your are scared of his big weener, but you aren't really. Your anxious about sex with him because your scared he will react to you negatively. Fear is just a feeling. its not real. If this kid loves you, which by now I think he would, giving him your vagay will make him the happiest boy in town.

You afraid of getting stuck? Wrong hole? Taking less time to pee, or going up to a larger maxi pad size? What is the big deal? The two of you will eventually break up anyway.

Why not tell him what you said here? I'm sure he'd be extremely flattered that you think he's huge and help you to "stretch it out"

You've had sex but your scared to do it again? Little strange.

if he really loves you, he won't dump you just because the first time isn't perfect. he'll be too busy glowing in the fact that the woman he loves is in his arms and opening up to him.

As for the pain - yes, there may be some if you haven't been with someone for a while. you should consider going to an adult store to check out your options on lubricants.

And ... not just extra foreplay - which IS important - but extra time relaxing before hand. Don't do something like a quickie in a car but make the effort to turn it into a romantic night.

have a relaxing bath first, a quiet intimate dinner, candles... move in slowly to the final destination of making love. it will make the night feel special, and perhaps relax you a bit so that it won't be as uncomfortable as you're afraid of.

cos i've been there... and know that relaxing is the best way to help ease things along.

This is such a normal problem.
Im a guy and I was too embarrassed to even get hard the first THREE times we tried. Talk about added embarrassment eh? I'm very kinky which added to the nerves cause i wasn't sure if she would like it.
Now, sex is fine amd everythings good. Turns out she really likes kinky and is a bit herself. So just be yourself and relax!!

Guy's always think of what's the inside like.. I am sure he has too. Don't be nervous, I guess he'll be ready for you and you should be too. Just ask him to start slowly and gently. best of luck..

You have nothing to fear but fear itself. No really, fear itself is your biggest problem.

If he's fickle enough to judge you after "seeing all of you" instead of just, you know, enjoying it, then he's not like most guys I know. And if he's just in it for the sex, why wait 7 months? Presumably you have common interests.

I think there are two kinds of virginity: the kind where you have sex for the first time, and the kind where you have GOOD sex for the first time. I find it takes longer to get to the 2nd one, especially for girls, and especially for both people at the same time.

If intercourse is your greatest worry, maybe start by having him eat you out for a while, and get you to relax? Also don't think that just because you're young it would be a terrible idea to have some water-based lube around. Although spit pretty much serves the same purpose.

I think it's totally normal. You should definitely wait til you've been together longer to have sex, unless you are sure you are ready, and that he will not leave. There is no rush!

People like what they like. You can say its normal. Some people like skinny other people like fat. Nothing strange about that.

Hunny, lemme tell ya...if your man didnt think you were sexy he would not be with you... He l lovss you. He will love your body !!!you just relax && even though his penis is bigger it will feel like heaven when you get use tO it.trust!

He is a guy, he is not going to change his opinion when he sees "all of you". About the size, just take it slow at first, and let him be on top so that it doesn't penetrate as far.

If he has been with you for that long he isnt the type of guy to get sex then leave. Just talk about it tell him to go slow at first until you get used to it. Us guys dont really notice if a girl is good or not pretty much if we are getting it we are happy.

you should tell him to put his penis slowly, so you can get used to the size. So your vagina will get used to the penis size and will be happy forever. entire vagina can handle any size of penis, they must first get used to then enjoy pleasure.

everyone has pretty much covered it for you. i was scared when i slept with my bf because i'd never been with another man before him. so i was a V. i kept telling myself with all the guys i've dated that i'll wait till i know it's right and it never felt right. but when i got with my bf i was still so nerves and scared he'd look at me and his bonner would just flop but it didn't because he loved me and didn't care he just wanted my first time to be special and also i could see he really wanted sex. But yeah just wait for the right moment and you'll be fine. do it when you feel ready and make it romantic as possible.