Is it normal to be scared to have sex

So me and this girl met like 7 years ago and We started dating on 1-21-12 We're completely in love and she meens everything to me. We haven't done anything sexual besides makeout. I broke up with her on 8-20-12 because I'm scared to show her my penis or have sex with her. even thought she wants too. because it might be to small or she might not like it. I just really need help, it's been hurting me for a long time because I want to get back together with her. Is this normal?

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50% Normal
Based on 4 votes (2 yes)
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  • ImmortalLove66

    It's only human to be insecure. But just don't let it ruin a beautiful relationship :) Just let her know how you feel about her and about yourself.

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  • ImmortalLove66

    It's normal to be nervous. I was very scared when my boyfriend and I first started getting intimate. I though I wouldn't be good enough. But that was just alot of over thinking. In my opinion, get back with her and talk to her. Let her know why you let her go. Then just take things slowly. Best of luck :)

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    • Thatguy1012

      Thanks(: Im just super nervous to tell her how insecure I am.

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