Is it normal to be scared of your boyfriend?

So he says he doesn't care what you want, but you still thinks he loves you a lot?!

This man is a bully! He would only have to swear at me once and it would be over for once and for all.

Next time he abuses you - don't phone him to apologise or talk about it! Show him that at least YOU respect yourself even if he doesn't respect you. If he does love you, he will phone you to apologise.

Don't be a doormat for this bully. In fact, when you look back in later years you will be baffled as to why you wasted so long on this @sshole. Trust me, I've been there!

My belief is "You don't get what you deserve, you get what you settle for" :o(
Sorry!

tell him goodbye then watch him cry

He sounds like a prick

I'm sure a '27 year old man' must seem like someone real mature and way old to you and well most here.
But once you get to 35 and look back at 27 you say, wow I was such a kid then still.
Once you get to 45 and look back at 27, you say obviously 27 is young especially a guy.

If this guy is so immature that he needs a 19yo, then you are going to have problems for many years.
I have an idea, look for a guy who likes your music and was born in your era. You will have loads more fun growing 'together'.
Lose the loser, that's not love that's immaturity.

he probably had a bad childhood and has alot of stuff inside of him he doesn't talk about.

That is abusive. You should get out before it is too late.

I imagined my baby sister in your position (she's a year younger than me, and I'm twenty) - and that dude is begging for a good beating.

What the hell? It's normal for girls (or even guys) to cry, even my "Ice Queen" girlfriend cries when she's too angry for words. Crying, in my eyes, in an expression of hurt. Some conceal it because it makes them appear vulnerable. I don't cry, only because I resolve to the 'You don't deserve my attention right now, piece of dirt, definitely not even a single drop of tear or spit shall be wasted on you' expression automatically.

My girlfriend would've ditched me for someone else in my face if I had said "I don't give a fuck for what you want". And I'd agree and support her despite myself. He's emotionally and verbally abusive, let's not forget selfish and ignorant.

Woman, leave him. Before he pummels what esteem you have left and leaves you with an emotion trauma.

You sound really pathetic and clingy, for gods sake get some dignaty and the female equivelant of some balls and dont be so dependant on another person.

Have respect for yourself, grow a spine and get out of that relationship.
The very fact that you even have to ask this is whats sickening. You're clearly not smart enough to see what's what. Get out of there before he starts hitting you or worse. It aint rocket science.

He is a fucking dick but you also need to man up a bit. This is a faintly abusive relationship. Don't let him treat you like that. When he says fuck you, don't cry like a little baby, tell him fuck you right back.

he is a fucken dick!

i had a boyfriend like this...if you can't talk with out hurting eachother, leave now.