Is it normal to be scared of this relationship?

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I have been dating a guy that I loved forever, he hid some stuff from me in the past, and i caught him. He cheated and asked for forgivness. However, now we are together, and he promised me that he won’t do all the things that he used to because he never knew that I will be that hurt.He said that now he loves me more than before. He is calling me every day, and he is telling me that he loves me. I am so scared that maybe he will cheat again or I am so scared that he knows how to cover his lies now more. I have a question for each woman in love do you guys thinks that man changes, do you guys believe that a cheater won’t be a cheater again??? Do you guys say that should i believe him now and forget his past. I love a lot he is my everything.

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  • moomus
    13 years ago

    I'm my opinion they don't change. But only speaking from my personal experience. My ex cheated and I took him back as we had 3 children. Some years later I found he'd never stopped, and is now going to marry someone else, and cheats on her, so he didn't change. But I can't speak for all of the population though. U need to know why he cheated. Personally I would never take back someone who cheated on me, but that's because of my past. Maybe there are people who've cheated in the past who learned by there mistakes and won't again. But it will take time to trust again, either way...

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  • lamartin
    13 years ago

    Moomus, i have all his passowerd now, but we are fighting a lot because i can't trust him.
    We took 2 days off, the first day past by and i miss him. What i hate is that his Boss keep poking him on facebook. I don't if he really loves me, and he hated when i tell him the he doesn't

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