Is it normal to be scared of sex?

Is it normal to be with a guy for over a year and not have sex? We do everything else but sex. We want to have sex but he never buys condoms. I can also only fit three fingers in me. I'm scared it will hurt. We're both virgins. I don't know what's wrong? I'll do it if he gets condoms. He just don't buy em. So it gets put off.

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  • ygrowup

    You can purchase them also you know!

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    • lc1988

      HA! good point ygrowup =)

      Anyways, it will hurt so just wait until you're ready. It's normal to be scared but sex is amazing with the right person.

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  • Tiddy

    I totally understand. It not that painful as u imagine. It's just that u are nervous and scare. Sometimes we take turns t buy. U can buy the condom along with other stuff like snacks or wadever things u wanna get, this will lower down awkwardness. Its better t have condom because they have lubricant and it's much more easy t get in. And u must try t relax so that u won't get too dry, it's better t foreplay before the actual one. :)

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  • ygrowup

    Yes it works well when the girl takes the lead and even helps with putting it on! But dont worry if that is to much to ask so soon, it get less awkward with time and practice!

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