Is it normal to be scared of guys

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I've always been a little weird regarding the opposite sex, ever since middle school when I liked this guy.....well, as soon as I figured out he liked me back, my feelings for him stopped completely, and instead I got all disgusted and repulsed. And it happens all the time with guys. I worry that I might not be able to maintain a real relationship if this carries on. I do want to talk to guys and maybe be in a relationship, but at the thought of lovey dovey stuff and having a guy take care of me, it scares me and makes me cringe.
Does this happen to anyone else? Or is it just me??? Is it weird that I still want a relationship after feeling this way?

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  • davesumba
    10 years ago

    Sounds like you need to mature and grow up.

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    • DangerousPotatoGuy
      10 years ago

      yeah I think she just needs some time

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  • DarkBlue
    10 years ago

    Maybe you have a fear of commitment or something. Everytime u get into a relationship u feel it eats up your space and there are expeectations that you need to fulfil. At the same time you don't wanna be single. I haven't been into many relationships but guess sometimes I feel like that too. My advice, just chill. Don't overthink about stuff, don't panic and just live the moment

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  • happyness4eva
    10 years ago

    my my my all these years I thought I was alone??!!!
    I think it's normal. I'm 17 n I've never had a bf. I'm scared and it's annoying but with time I will get better.

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  • megadriver
    10 years ago

    You need a bit more time love. Normally girls are the one who do the love-stuff...
    I'm sure you'll find the right guy.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Penis. You are afraid of penises.

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  • anonymous9250
    10 years ago

    Same here

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  • southernbelleblondeedition
    10 years ago

    I feel the same way, I don't ever know what to do with guys. I get all scared and quiet.

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  • loopoo
    10 years ago

    I feel exactly the same, I thought I was weird.

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