Is it normal to be scared of dating an experienced guy?

I've only had one boyfriend. It lasted for about a year but ended out of nowhere because I got dumped, later finding out that he was cheating on me. After 5 months, I finally became interested in someone else and to my surprise, he told he was interested in me as well. He's 2 years older than me (20) and he told me he's had 10 different girlfriends and even had sex with maybe 10 or more girls before. Hearing this kind of made me feel insecure (because he's seen and touched so many girls and I don't think there's much to my body; I'm an a cup and I have a small but and I'm sure he's touched better and better boobs and butts) and afraid mainly because he's experienced and I'm not as experienced. Out of the 10 girls he dated, he said that most of them dumped him because they couldn't commit to the relationship. I know I shouldn't overthink but he told me he'd date me and a couple of days ago, kissed me. So is it normal to be feeling this way? I feel a bit insecure because of my body and afraid since something like this is new to me and I don't know what to expect. Thank you guys :)

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  • AFF

    If he is 20 and he has had 10 relationships and some hookups, his relationships couldn't have been too long and form my experience, people get much more sexual experience (in terms of trying new thing and experiencing) when they are in a long term relationship with someone they trust and feel confortable with. So even if he has been with a higher number of people, he doesn't have to be more experienced than you.
    Also, don't be ashamed of your body, if he is interested in you it means that he finds you sexually atractive.
    Soooo.... if you like hom go for it!

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  • capmann1880

    As long as hes a nice guy and you have an open mind, this actually should work out great for you. What I mean is, he shouldn't pressure to you go too far too fast, but you shouldn't get "cold feet" either. If he really is all that experienced, let him show you a good time.

    Of course, just because he has had a lot of partners doesn't necessarily means he knows what hes doing in bed.

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  • Sog

    Well to be honest, someone who claims to have been with that many women at that age sounds pretty toxic to me. But hey, I'm not going to pass judgement on you if you really want to be with the guy.

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  • ThisIsImpossible

    You should feel lucky he's even dating you, when girls like you get near me all I can think the entire time is
    "Please, please shut the fuck up forever. Please."

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    • Johnnytherat

      did somebody not take their happy pills today?

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      • ThisIsImpossible

        Keep it real bruh

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  • Mersaphe

    That's normal, you are impressed but also intimidated by him.

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  • tough1

    Enjoy yourself.

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