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Is it normal that I (a white girl) am really scared of black guys? It's to the point where I can't even see a picture of one without feeling really scared/nervous. I'm not even trying to be racist, I'm just really scared of them. They are always so forward and I've had some bad experiences with them so that might be the reason. I'm just really scared of them.
everyone, in a little way, is scared of black people. im not trying to be racist or anything, but with the way that the media portrays them who wouldnt be? Now im not deadly afraid, but a little bit, yes.
sounds more like a phobia. Face your fears and throw yourself in the hood to be surrounded by black people until your fears are gone.... jk that's dangerous
Maybe look evil all the time and they won't mess with you. Always portray the action of pulling a sharp object out of your purse and they will be more afraid of you than you are of them.
White people fear Black people because they know very little about Black people, other than what the government and the media has put inside their heads. Not all Blacks are out to get Whites; the average Black person is simply concerned about his/her daily concerns and undertaking whatever hard work he/she needs to perform. Trust me, most of us Blacks - myself included - don't bite.
I am too in alot of ways. I'm a white girl too and when I was going to college in a city I had ALOT of scary encounters with black guys. They would corner me or touch me in public buses! White guys never treated me that way or were that forward, which is why we find them scarier as a race.
I am a black girl and this is what I find most unnatractive about black guys. They are sooo forward and aggressive...white boys have a quiet confidence, a confidence that is real, its there because they have the smarts and the skills to please a women, its not some bs they are lying to you about, or bragging. I am sooo much more satisfied with my white husband. He is cool, calm and collected. He ignores the younger black guys and concentrates on pleasing his women...ME!!!!
Wow, it's comments like these that make me, a black man, afraid of white people. I noticed that time2time stated that black guys have nothing between the ears, yet I graduated 3rd in my class of 340 and have my name is several scientific articles.
Several scientific articles? What was the study? People with spelling problems?
I wouldn't say that all black people are stupid or anything like that. I just get very scared by them. Why are black guys so forward and innapropriate to girls? I'm not saying that you do these things, but the majority of black guys do. I know that I can't even say that just because every black guy I have met is this way, all black guys must be this way. There are always exceptions and you can't group everybody into that. But, that still doesn't mean that I'm not scared of all black guys. It's not even a conscious choice, it just is that way.
We've all grown up in social environments (at least public awareness wise) that we are all to be treated equal. Even though I continuously know that and believe in it, I always have a unconscious mind saying that black ppl are scary and lowly in society (I know it's unconscious because I find out later). In fact, it's the very first thing that pops into my head. After I notice what I'm thinking, I know that it's not "right" to not like blk ppl. But anyway, in the end I really don't like them. I can't help it even though I know it's wrong. Just being honest. I wonder if other ppl have this too?
Be scared little white girl. We're gonna RAPE YOU with our 15' barbed penises!
The reason we hate blacks is there's to fucking many of them mostly in gangs at least now there killing each other. It seems to be the last two generations the old folk are very unassuming and polite.
I am not scared of black men (white woman talking...). I love the black cultures of Africa, Hawaii, carribean, etc. I love African music, African dancing, African people and when I worked as a telemarketer and was on the break of suicide the only sunshine in my day was the humour of the African man sitting next to me. And I had a lot of fun pretending to be French with a French black man. LOL.
Anyone seen the movie "Crash"? WATCH IT
I think if you have been hurt by a black person, your not really afraid of them, your afraid of the actions you think a black man would take. Where I'm from there are few black people, but the ones that live here could not be any nicer and wouldn't hurt a fly.
Stay away from them. They think because they got a reputation of having big dicks there the bee's knee's. But they are sum. With nothing between the ears. I hate them all and have never met a good one. Be safe girls.
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White pussy easy meat.
Why should people be defined by a color, If you were fuc**ng blind you wouldnt even tell the godamn diference. BTW Im not black nor white im pretty in between. & judging people because the mistake of a few its retarded not everybody is the same. If your gonna be racist do as you please but dont go out saying things like this that just prove how judgemental people are just for a stupid color.
It's posts like these that make me realize how backwards and degenerate our society is. Truly nothing has changed in our advancement as a country. Just because one black guy may of hurt you doesn't mean you should be scared of then all. Some of the greatest inventors were black. I think your a cold, heartless bitch and maybe one day you will see this. As for now, I wish you the best of luck.
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P.S: I'm white btw
Daedric, you have to really take a look at your race and realize you're an exception. It's not racism, it's truth. So take pride in that.
I'm not scared of the guys like you that (I assume) present yourself like any other guy. Not like the way black guys usually treat girls like us lol.
I think it's fairly normal. I never had any sort of concern or aversion to black men until I was mugged at gunpoint by a couple of them. Now I wouldn't say I'm scared exactly, but I'm definitely a lot more wary and suspicious of black men of a certain appearance, especially in certain situations. Maybe it's not right or fair and I'm sure most of these guys are perfectly decent individuals just going about their business, but that's just how I feel now.
You shouldn't judge the person's whole race based on a few incidents
Everyone is different (: