Is it normal to be scared he's the one?

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Uh I feel.. This weird connection/bond with this guy.. I really have a thing for him, and he told me he really likes me, saying I'm beautiful and such. He really wants me(so he claims) but he can be a real jerk sometimes, and if i Make him mad, I feel guilty! When I definitely shouldn't, because he usually gets mad when I won't send him naked pictures of me and I won't give him a bj or anything. It's my choice, why Should I feel guilty? But then the next day he apologizes for being an asshole. So of course... I say it's okay. He Is NOT the type of guy I want to fall in love with, but, for some reason.... It's happening anyways. I think about him a lot, and sometimes I feel like he's an important part of my life. My heart says yes, but my head says no. And after a few... Coincidences I'm starting to really think I am falling for him, falling hard. And... It scares me, I don't want to end up with a guy like this.. Lovecalc also said we are 100% someone tell me that's completely fake, right?????

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  • Abnerocks
    9 years ago

    Lovecalc is completely fake, as I hope you knew already.

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  • night
    12 years ago

    That happened to me!!! I dated the same type and I was scared he was the one but then I left him and after I left him I met the man of my dreams and we r married now...so be strong and leave before damage happens..

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  • listen2me
    12 years ago

    RUN!!!!!!!!!! Run fast...been there done that...and 10 yrs later he still makes miserable. Don't get prego...that really complicates it. Trust me!!

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  • BoredGuy
    12 years ago

    p.s lovecalc is for morons

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  • BoredGuy
    12 years ago

    bet your ass I would have dump you for not giving bj. pfff

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  • IDontAskMuch
    13 years ago

    His playing with your emotions. His reeling you in to get you to the point where you really really like, want and possible need him. We all like attention but mind games are played and so our emotions often get in the way and we become blind to what's really going on. Your be surprised all the different tactics people use to reel people in but it's their true intentions which count the most. Do they really like us or are we just their plaything that they can manipulate. Only you know what's really going in here so it's only you that can make your choices.

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  • rayst
    13 years ago

    You're a normal girl you love to be treated like shit by an asshole. Totally normal

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  • georgienne
    13 years ago

    I don't think this is love. I think his actions and words spur interest, but i wouldn't think this to be actual attraction. Be friends, that way you can walk when he's being an idiot and talk when he's not.
    Maybe one day his attitude will change and you can try a relationship, but I'd steer clear for now.

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