Is it normal to be scared from breaking up with my boyfriend.

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Okay. I have a boyfriend, and he is more like my friend. I dont want to be with him anymore because i have become attracted to another boy. He is black, more mixed. I am white, and hes liked me before, but thats when i didnt like him. I want to be with the other boy, but i dont know if he still wants me, while i dont want to hurt my boyfriends feelings about it.. What should i do.? I cant take it anymore. Please dont give me silly information. Thanks.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    12 years ago

    Just leave him and get with the other dude. You're not doing your current boyfriend any favors by staying with him while you're no longer interested, life is too short to waste on a relationship that isn't going to work out.

    Besides, we're not talking about leaving a fiance, a husband, or a man that you have, in some way (through either having their kids or joint property rental/ownership) committed your life in whole or in part to. That's the beauty of dating, until you actually COMMIT and not just "oh baby, I love you and I wanna be with you forever", you don't have any obligation to stay with them.

    Do what you want and be happy!

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  • kyanviado
    12 years ago

    It's time for boyfriend to go

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Just do it I was in the same situation a while back & I am now super happy that I did it, it's yoor life and it's way too short too be with the wrong person x

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    You're obviously ready to move on. Even if this other guy doesn't like you, it seems you are ready to break up with your bf. Good luck!

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