Is it normal to be scared after 10 years?

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Ok heres a serious question this time, is it normal to be scared to have a child with my boyfriend even after 10 years? I mean we love each others to dead, we are still walking hand in hand and cuddling and we are still telling by sms all day long how much we love each other when we're at work and we live together for about 5 years now and everythings perfect....we had some rough times in the past but now i cant ask for more... I know he'll be an awesome dad, but Im scared that something may goes wrong, that maybe hes not THE one...i never had any other boyfriends or experiences and neither him and
we are very very fine with it...well, maybe im just over thinking too much....?! (sorry for my english)

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  • Hmmaybe
    12 years ago

    Marry him. That'll make you feel more secure.

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  • SweetSherry
    12 years ago

    Its normal to have fears such as these it doesn't mean you're not ready 10 yrs is a long time you've been together I say go for it

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  • enoughofnothing
    12 years ago

    ^ thats funny !!! Maybe you and this person are twins separated at birth !!! Just kidding :)

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  • ilovemyjew
    12 years ago

    Life

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  • ilovemyjew
    12 years ago

    Holyshit. Me and you are twins. I think you just described my lufe

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  • georgienne
    12 years ago

    If it were me, these thoughts would cause me to hold off. Just thinking this shows you're unprepared.

    Settle down more, live a nice kid-less life and give it some more thought later.

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  • MrsBailey9
    12 years ago

    Being a parent, or even considering parenthood is frightening. Especially in this day and age. I don't think you are experiencing anything abnormal. Physically, mentally, and financially, when you have a child, EVERYTHING changes. It sounds like you have a great relationship and that communication is not an issue with your man. So, talk to him, tell him how you are feeling. You may be surprised to find out that he is scared too. Together the both of you can work it out, when you are ready. Don't rush into it, if it isn't the right time. It sounds like you are young, and if there are things you want to do or accomplish before having a family, now might be the time to start doing them. Once you have a child/children you grow up very quickly! How exciting, look at it as a new adventure for the two of you to take "hand-in-hand". Love is an amazing thing, isn't it?! Good Luck to you!

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  • Linda15
    12 years ago

    I don't know much about this thing but I think it could be normal You being scare doesn't have to mean you don't love him Having a kid is a really scary thing if you are not ready for it and perhaps that's your problem It sounds like you have a really amazing relationship so don't rush things if you don't really want to

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