Is it normal to be romantically attracted to women but sexually to men

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I'm 25, not terribly old, but old enough to have had enough experiences to lead me to fear this is my fate.

I've never loved a man the way I have a woman. There's a passionate, tender, deep feeling I've had toward a handful of females. That being said, I don't feel as comfortable with them sexually. I don't feel attractive when I'm with a women, and the whole thing is awkward and unnatural to me.

I'm extremely sexually attracted to men, almost to the point where it's too much. I want to have babies with a man, but I want to love him the way I've loved some women..not just for being 6 ft tall and devastatingly handsome. I can't find the same closeness.. I hope I will, but I haven't yet. : (

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    You are a cocksucker my boy, no doubt about it..

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      cocksucker, definitely. boy, definitely not ; )

      (read the last paragraph lol)

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      • peterr
        10 years ago

        Sorry Dear, you are okay. don't worry about it. Suck women off and men. You'll figure it out sooner or later and even if you don't there will be a lot of satisfied men and women out there.

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    If you are not sexually attracted to women than its platonic. Platonic love is not the same as romantic love. So you are do not like women romantically.

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    • Legion
      10 years ago

      so your saying an asexual person can't fall in love with someone?

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      • RomeoDeMontague
        10 years ago

        It depends if they want to be sexual with that person or not. Otherwise its the same as a friendship which is platonic.

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        • RomeoDeMontague
          10 years ago

          platonic love
          Web definitions
          Platonic love is a type of love that is chaste and non-sexual. If they do not want sex with this person than its platonic. Why when someone is not romantically involved they say its platonic. Platonic is how you love a friend or a family member and not how you love your girlfriend or your boyfriend.

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  • eu1979
    10 years ago

    maybe you can't love men because of society. so many rules and ideas on normality can make some repress what they really feel, or not accept it.

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  • Derpinism
    10 years ago

    so you probably need an emotional guy or a feminine guy or a metrosexual guy

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  • Rick_Bawls
    10 years ago

    So you want to be friends with a woman, but want to have anal sex with some random dude you meet at a rest stop? Sounds perfectly normal...

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  • DarkestMoon
    10 years ago

    I feel the same way...well, sort of. Except it's the opposite. I'm not 25 so I've not had NO experience with relationships. And I'm a girl. I am sexually attracted to females (and I would like to think emotionally too, but again no experience) but I am NOT attracted to men (kind of repulsed by the male anatomy too) but I feel as if I could be emotionally attached to a guy if he isn't like a jerk or whatever. It would NEVER be in a sexual way, though. Kind of like asexual people where a lot of them have emotional partners. But I think it's normal and you would one day feel the same way towards a man, it just takes time with these things.

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  • tripw7
    10 years ago

    Probably doubtful that you will find a women that you like as much as a guy, especially if you have had sex with a guy.
    You may not have a prolonged experience with a women that is not really someone that you respect. There may come a point that you will decide that you want to experiment with someone that you respect. Be sure that both of you feel the same way toward each other. Good luck.

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