Is it normal to be resentful towards my best friend?

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My best friend sometimes is so mean. And she has changed me. She's really judgemental. She points out EVERYTHING about people's appearance. I never used to do that before I met her. Now I find myself judging people on their looks and making fun of them or putting them down. I told her we should stop and I never use to do it befor I met her, and she acted like she doesn't do it and I made her do it! We fight alot. She's a my way or no way at all type of person.. But I love her so much because we have so much fun when were not fighting. We laugh so much and can be totally comfortable. Sometimes I feel like she judges me on my appearance, so I started to do it to. Now I resent her so much but I love her at the same time. Is that normal?!

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Someday, perhaps soon, you may find yourself at a crossroads with her asking yourself the question: is her friendship worth the trouble? When the negatives of her character defects out number the good times with her I suspect you'll be moving on and distancing yourself from your so called friend.

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  • Shackleford96
    10 years ago

    Are you 13 years old?

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  • memvc
    10 years ago

    Yea, she is influencing you and someone else influenced her. Did you know if you hang out with people who are overweight, you gain weight because you pick up their eating habits, this is why people drink, smoke, spit, fight, and also what can make you an honorable person. BTW. You don't really resent her, you resent the social interaction between you and her. It can change with your influence.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Not really your friend then is it.

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