Is it normal to be repulsed by a kiss?

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Is it normal to be repulsed by a kiss? Last night I went out for my friend's birthday and long story short, I ended up kissing a boy, holding hands and cuddling him. I felt nothing and even thought ''ew'' as he was kissing me. However, when I kissed my female friend goodbye on the lips, I felt a spark and I wanted more.

I definitely like girls, I'm just not sure if I like boys and even now, thinking about the kiss, I feel sick and repulsed by it. Is it normal?

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  • Azaman
    7 years ago

    So you're probably lesbian...? Sure, normal.

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  • Corncakes
    7 years ago

    Girls are arguably just better in terms of relationship, due to their instinctive caring nature.

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    • JazzDiva
      7 years ago

      Agreed so I think it is more of a latching onto a mature young female versus a "boy" who is not even close to the level of a mature man.

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  • _Jesus_
    7 years ago

    I don't like the millennium breed of kissing. The entire tongue in the lung kind of kissing is revolting to me.
    I like closed mouth kisses. Just a quick closed mouth kiss.

    So, in summary, I tend to stay away from kissing because it will inevitably lead to tongue karate. And that's so gross. To me, anyway.

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  • JazzDiva
    7 years ago

    That doesnot mean you prefer girls. That could just mean you enjoyed the experiment. You are suppose develop a friend ship with anyone you have relations with. You did not develop the level of trust and friendship in the guy as you see in the females.Think of it also as an obssession of attraction of yourself. Many movies and some people are flattered by their own appearance so they kiss themselves in the mirror etc. So when you kissed the girl you felt more comfortable, more energetic, more hormonal. It is different from society's projection of romeo and Juliet. It is Juliet enjoying herself. I think you assume because a kiss with a guy you didnt like made you gay makew no sense. I never felt a spark with the guy I dated for 3 years..Why? Because I was young thinking it was a disney movie romance. It was just a kiss with a guy I had no attachment too. Just a guy not the love of my life.

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  • lundi
    7 years ago

    If you prefer girls. That's okay.

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  • Thatuglyfatboy
    7 years ago

    Experiment. But nothing too indulgent. Judging that you like guys from a kiss from a man you're not attached to isn't much to go on. You could have had a slight crush on your friend, I don't know. Damn. I wish I could help, I don't know a lot of (correction: any) homosexuals. The homophobia is way high in my place/region/country.

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