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Okay so I'm a healthy girl, but secretly I'm just gagging to wake up tied to my bed, gagged and be pleasured beyond imagination.
But what do you guys think about playing nasty dominatrix?
| Mmm...Sexy, let's play rough and dirty you whore. | 8 | |
| I'd love to tie a girl up and do what I please while she is helpless. | 9 | |
| I would only do it if the girl really wanted me to. | 3 | |
| I really don't like the idea. | 1 | |
| No way. | 1 |
I've been asked to do things like this more than once and have done things like this more than once. It seems particularly normal and common to me and it can be a lot of fun. One person in my past wanted exactly the same as you, pretty much word for word. I had to tie her up in her sleep without waking her, blindfold her, and then wake her up by doing whatever I wanted to her (but without ever speaking). I think she liked the idea that because she couldn't see me or hear me, I could have been absolutely anyone, i.e. just some randy burglar who'd broken in and seized his chance to have his way with her.
Practical tips for you for if you get to try this: We tried rope because that was part of her fantasy. Didn't work. You'll wake up and it's a pain to do the knots. Get a bed with slats in the headboard and invest in handcuffs. Try and fall asleep with your hands near the slats. When we tried that, it worked every time and she enjoyed it just the same.
Good advice! I hope you used a safeword/gesture of some kind. I agree that it's really normal. OP, seriously, read up on safewords that you can use while bound and gagged if you're going to do this It's very, very important, even if you don't think you're going to need it.
Rope also has the disadvantage of taking ages to undo, which can be distressing if you need to stop. Duct tape leaves an awful residue that will stay on your face for ages if it's used to cover your mouth (I once knitted a moustache and duct taped it to my face to play Nietzsche for a school project, and the aftermath was horrible). I think I've seen photo sets that used ribbon, which is pretty, but I don't know if it's comfortable or practical (nobody seems to give a shit if models are in pain). Hmm…
We did indeed have a safe word (which I'm not going to divulge because it's rather similar to the username of an IIN member and it'll make her feel weird). We never actually needed it, though. Good advice on the rope, I forgot how long it can take to unpick knots. Although there are certain types of "quick release" knot, which get tighter as people struggle but which the non-bound partner can undo in no time just by pulling on a loop. Could have been fun, although it would have helped if I knew how to tie them. Learning how to tie knots from a book is like learning how to appreciate wine via interpretive dance.