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I catch my husband watching porn, and it hurts my feelings. he says it's cuz I don't take care of him but I work and I'm tired. Is it normal that it hurts me that he watches it
I get a little jealous too when I find out my woman watches it. I know it's unreasonably hypocritical... but it's not something I can control.
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Yeah, because he satisfies his biological imperatives without being unfaithful. How selfish . . .
Watching porn does not make anyone a sex addict . . .
Males tend to have a stronger biological need to have sex so that they can more effectively propagate their seed. It is healthier for the relationship to watch porn than it would be to cheat or to be sexually frustrated.
Whether or not this dude is a sex addict depends not just on the fact that he watches porn, but how much, how often and what kind he watches.
How about people communicate their needs instead of making excuses for watching porn. Obviously the problem is bad enough to bother OP. If I were a gambler I'd bet this guy's use is overuse.
You seem perfectly content in judging others on what amounts to no evidence. You don't just assume " I'd bet this guy's use is overuse."
How about asking questions first. "How often does he masturbate?" It isn't that difficult.
It is actions like these that are detriment to the progression of humanity.
I dont understand why anyone gets upset over porn. Its not cheating at all and some people need visual stimulation to get off. Im mostly indifferent to porn but I can understand why some people like it. Getting upset over what is nothing but pixels on a screen will only make him not want to deal with you having a problem with it.
I do not think you should be upset. Guys are different from women and porn is a good way for men to fulfill some needs so that a wife need not. It can also keep a guy from straying,which is not a bad thing.
Many years back, I read an article that stated that young men think about sex every 2.5 seconds. Do not condemn your man, nor allow yourself to be hurt by this, just accept that men and women have different needs and at least he's keeping his at home.
It's normal that you were hurt there's a sense of jealousy here what you could do to get your back is watch some gay porn yourself :)! Lol
talk to your man maybe you can come to some sort of compromise or maybe have sex with him on a regular basis..
You could try watching porn with him and what porn as a couple. but you would have to talk about it with him to see if that's the right idea for you both.
the last thing that you want this for your relationship with your man to break up over someone watching porn that one time.