Is it normal to be picky about how i judge women?

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Alright so here is how it goes pretty much so my friend and I go to the gym from Monday to Friday and mostly from time to time we catch our eye on a teen or women and honestly I kinda don't look and enjoy staring at a girl because I had girls that I like that change to good to bad in high school am 18 and my friend and I are dudes. So mostly I know how people say that you have talk to her so you can know who she is but honestly I look at a women from 20 to 30.. am that guy mmk. And honestly I just see them talk and gossip about stuff like if thy were in high school not just that but phone addiction I know people have life's but your in the gym to work out not slouch and honestly I haven't seen many women that actually look like I can have a decent conversation but they turn3d out to be married or with someone of course. Honestly I can't talk to a girl and hope she doesnt forget the next day and my friend jumps to girl to girl hoping to find that girl he wants in his mind.(different story)So to end it, is it wrong too To be this judgemental I just know that when I look at girl that i like I see it in my mind that I respect her sometimes I gotta talk to her but it seems like the ones that catch my eye are the best to talk too and my instinct hasn't failed me yet

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  • ProseAthlete
    11 years ago

    Wow. I don't normally judge men harshly, but when I can't understand what they write, I get a little judgy. How about you try that again in English this time?

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    • Mg4short
      11 years ago

      Ok I can understand. I type it in my phone so I know I messed up but honestly when you just talk like you got something stuck up your a$$ because you decide you got a problem for reading a little paragraph. Then my point is why is there women like you that have these piss off attitudes and not just when they talk I see it in there face like they gotta look and act like a bitch so someone can understand me. That's what I see and I don't see any girls that I can honestly respect because like you there so hot tempered with minor problems. Hows that for English?!!

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      • thinkingaboutit
        11 years ago

        It was still pretty bad.

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        • ProseAthlete
          11 years ago

          It really was, wasn't it?

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      • ProseAthlete
        11 years ago

        I make a living from words. Watching some troglodyte drag his hairy knuckles across a keyboard and call it communication is painful. I can no more help that than you can help being a defensive, angry jerk.

        I find it interesting that out of three responses saying, "WTF did you just say?" you chose mine to reply to in a snide and nasty way. I guess Kingsleycrowne and Rougethebat weren't "acting like a bitch" because you didn't know if they were women. Maybe women get a piss-off attitude because they can tell you really don't like them much.

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        • thinkingaboutit
          11 years ago

          ha you're a blast

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  • RougeTheBat
    11 years ago

    Im sorry sir could you repeat that?

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    • Terence_the_viking
      11 years ago

      Code undeciphered.

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  • kingsleycrowne
    11 years ago

    I had a bit of difficulty comprehending your post. I'm not sure exactly what you are trying to say here. It's normal to be picky but sometimes you have to broaden your horizons and be more open minded about meeting people as your first impressions can deceive you.

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  • DADNSCAL
    11 years ago

    I hardly ever quote the Bible, but it's so apropos: "Judgst Thou not, lest Thou be judged".

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  • Nokiot9
    8 years ago

    Meeting guys. Make sure they have a smoothie or coffee. Otherwise, they're just at the gym for one reason: to get fit. And don't want creepers slobbin all over them while they're all sweaty and "not hot". I learned that the gym is a really BAD place to pick up girls. Yes, it's a place where a lot of good looking girls are, but so is the dorm on a Friday afternoon. I normally have at least one friend staying in the dorms that'll toss me the door code. tons of girls there just leave their doors wide open and don't mind people sticking their heads in and chatting them up. And if you're charming and not threatening and make them laugh ur almost guaranteed to get at least a phone number.

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  • Nokiot9
    8 years ago

    I dunno. Women are hard to talk to sometimes. But I'm sure I put up a heavy guard without even realizing it, with my headphones on and my face in my phone and a bitchy resting face.you just gotta be prepared for rejection if ur gonna go chasing tail. Especially at the gym. You got pick ur gym honey with care. Make sure she has makeup on. Girls that go to the gym without makeup usually aren't interested in

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  • intellectuallychallengedmaybe
    11 years ago

    flip it. are you okay with women being super "judgey" about you?

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  • auburnsin
    11 years ago

    If you have standards keep them. Never lower your standards because youll regret it. Your not being judgmental you know what you want stick with it. You may be ridiculed but why care? If the gal fits your standard physically go converse with her. If she does not why torture yourself?

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