Is it normal to be physically attractive but a nerd?

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I have always been a nerd for as long as I can remember. Then when I was a teen I became better looking. A question that I have always been wondering is if I am attractive and would make a good boyfriend then why don't women ever want to date me? please comment below. I'm not the kind thats super smart but I like video games anime and manga and I am smart just don't want to go to college. Am I normal?

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  • Corleone
    12 years ago

    Wait, have you actually asked a girl out yet? Because a lot of guys complain about how no one wants to date them while they never asked a girl out in the first place.

    And try to be more confident. Liking video games and anime doesn't necessarily make you a bad boyfriend. Why would it?

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    • doxies4life
      12 years ago

      I am actually dating someone right now. I was wondering because I was never popular with girls in high school and deffinetly not now.

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      • Saycheese
        12 years ago

        Trust me there are girls out there that don't always like the popular type. Me for an example. I'm kind of like you in a sense. I've always liked video games and the "so called" nerdy movies like Star Wars, Transformers and so on...

        I can tell you I'm not the most intelligant person around either but I don't let that bother me... who cares, just be yourself.

        I know I'll eventually meet someone that I'll fall for and who will fall for me. Plus I think nerdy guys are cute, how is that being a bad boyfriend. Put your chin up... it'll make the girl your dating feel great also. :)

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        • doxies4life
          12 years ago

          Thank you! I have always been shy around girls my whole life and now I'm getting better about it. since when was being a nerd considered cute? Aw well things always get better in the future.

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          • Saycheese
            12 years ago

            Seriously?? You ask that. I would rather be with someone who is intelligant than not. Normally the nerdy guys are rather sweet too. Why wouldn't any girls think that? Everybody has there own personal preferences.

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            • doxies4life
              12 years ago

              true.

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  • littlemissgiggles
    12 years ago

    Nerds are epic :) I'm a bit of a nerd and have never really met an incredibly attractive male nerd...........so, that's epic

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    12 years ago

    I'm a guy so i'm going to turn around and say, a hot chick that's a nerd would be AWESOME!!

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    • doxies4life
      12 years ago

      Damn strait.

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  • laymaan
    12 years ago

    Once a nerd, always a nerd dude. Only exception: Nerdy Hot chicks.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It is your opinion you look better, what if it's everyone elses opinion that you're still not attractive?

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  • CheyChey
    12 years ago

    I think it's all in your mind the whole ooooh what a nerd thing is sooo year 2000! nerds are actually pretty cool

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    • doxies4life
      12 years ago

      Thanks.

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  • SophiieXD
    12 years ago

    Maybe your problem lies with the way you think... Most girls like assholes but don't look or fall for girls like this... If you put yourself out there I'm sure you will find a nice girl :)

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    • doxies4life
      12 years ago

      True my problem is that I'm shy.

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  • mikel
    12 years ago

    maybe u have listened to ur mum telling u u are good looking that u finally believe it even though u are as fugly as shit and a nerd

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  • hottmess
    12 years ago

    I have met really hot guys, but then they are just huge weirdos and it is a total turn off. It isn't all about looks, you have to have confidence, style, and good hygiene (:

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  • otaku1105
    12 years ago

    If your good looking you have nothing to worry about, lots a girls a shallow, and will date you just because your good looking. But, however what you really need is a good women, someone who understands you, respects you and loves you for who you are. Maybe someone who has the same interest as you. I'm a guy like you. I'm what you call an otaku. Manga, anime, video games and stuff like that is a big part of my life. And guess what... I'm married! So don't give up hope there's someone out there for everyone.

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  • doxies4life
    12 years ago

    Why all the negative comments? I have been told by different women I am good looking and would make a great boyfriend.

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  • violetgrape
    12 years ago

    two kinds of people tend to be unpopular.1)the very ugly 2)the very hot.I presume you are the latter

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  • Darkoil
    12 years ago

    I am a power geek but i still manage to get laid more than anyone i know.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Justin Bieber is the most attractive so how do you measure up when compared to him?

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    • catfan
      12 years ago

      Ew you like Justin Bieber! He is SO girly!

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        Yeh right like you wouldnt date him.

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  • Avant-Garde
    12 years ago

    Look at Toby McGuire in the Spiderman trilogy and see how Sexy he was:)

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  • BrookeNicolle
    12 years ago

    Its because you are a nerd, you can be good looking all you want but until you back your looks up with some better or cooler personality and throw out nerd stuff then you are shit out of luck sir.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    If you don't want to go to college, maybe they don't see you as a great catch / ambitious enough to date.

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    • shuggy-chan
      12 years ago

      my thought exactly

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      • catfan
        12 years ago

        Mine, too.

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        • shuggy-chan
          12 years ago

          shut up catfan. Dogs all day baby!!! WOOF WOOF!!!

          and if you couldnt tell, im joking

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  • MobyDik1011
    12 years ago

    I know how it feels im exactly the same honest

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  • Samson
    12 years ago

    How does looking cool make you cool? Riddle me that batman.

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