Is it normal to be paranoid of your girlfriend sometimes

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Well, Sometimes I'd be texting my girlfriend..and she'd say she's with a dude, I always get the feeling they're up to something but at the same time I trust her not to, Shes done things to me in the past, nothing that bad just held another guys hand right in front of me, wrapped round his arm and asked another dude to pee with her, she was quite drunk on all occasions..We've been going out just over a year and I really want to know if she has been doing anything but I don't want ti ask straight up in case she gets really angry at me...

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  • moomus
    12 years ago

    I'd ask. Why would she get angry of she was innocent?

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
      12 years ago

      this.

      and if you feel you have to distrust someone... maybe you're not in the relationship you want to be in.

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  • Thorolf
    8 years ago

    I wouldn't trust her dude...

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  • bozeman59
    8 years ago

    When we were courting 1new years eve we where out with friends and 1of my husband friends started messing about with me grabbing my ass kissing me. All harmless play but my husband flow across the table ready to kill him this fella was 1of my husbands oldest friends it to 3 others to stop him and did speak to him for about a month

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  • coolio75650932
    11 years ago

    i didnt read exept title cuz title say it all so you and MY girlfriend? ima knock yo lights out bitch

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  • packersman
    12 years ago

    Drunk or not, I would confront her about that junk. If I wasn't satisfied, I would dump her. I wouldn't be able to handle that kind of stuff.

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  • SweetSherry
    12 years ago

    LOL dump her that feeling you have is your instinct telling you she's up to no good

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  • kyanviado
    12 years ago

    You are a man, you are entitled to know. If I were you and I felt suspicious, I would ask her. If she is truly innocent she will answer calmly. If she is guilty she might calmly admit guilt or become defensive possibly yes with an angry tone in which case I would break off the relationship

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago

    ... That's ... Hmmm I wouldn't trust her either ...

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  • 8Serene8
    12 years ago

    Just ask.

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    Trust your instincts. If you're suspicious then it's probably for a valid reason. She sounds like an abusive whore who causes you to fear her anger. Leave her and pray for her.

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  • InsertBlankHere
    12 years ago

    Why are you afraid of her getting angry?
    Just because a person is drunk does not excuse them from their behavior. When you're drunk you never get an urge to go out and rob a store or smash some windows or commit sex crimes, right? Because those thoughts don't even occur in your head while you're sober.
    She's up to something. Whether she's trying to make you jealous, or trying to get you riled up and act possessive, who knows? Who cares!? You don't need those head games.
    Tell her what you think. Who cares if she gets angry or defensive? She's causing you emotional distress, and she's probably doing it intentionally.

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
      12 years ago

      Very true. Being drunk doesn't excuse bad behavior.

      I mean ... she got herself drunk in the first place.

      And people usually know how they act when they're drunk... so it's their responsibility to know their own limit.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Lol the truth hurts. I'd get away from her seriously, I don't need that kind of shit from a person that's supposed to love me. She wouldn't be doing that stuff if she even slightly cared about your feelings. Do you see yourself living a life with that kind of person who does that?

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