Is it normal to be paranoid about this?

Well, there's a girl which i fancy and i know she also fancies me (we both know how each other feels), i plan on asking her out so that's not the problem. I have a friend who is more fiendly to her than i am, we first met as a group, but i'm not that sociable in a group of people i dont really know so i didn't talk to her that much, when we're alone we talk quite a bit. But, my friend knows how we feel about each other and i can't help but feel that he likes her too and whenever he starts talking to her and hugging her i get really jealous and want to hit him, i wouldn't have a problem if he wasn't such a cunt. He's a bully, a nob head and a bad friend, but he acts differently round her, so she doesn't know what he's really like and this makes me more angry. I'm now getting really paranoid about him, and we're starting to become worse friends and the thing is, he's leaving my school at the end of the year, and going to her school for sixth form (college) and i can't help but think he's gunna try and make a move on her. Is it normal to be paranoid about this?

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  • DannyKanes

    Yeah he's an ass, knock him out

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  • ms_funion

    you should ask her out before your friend does.

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  • abdul009

    Quit being a fanny,go ask her out mate before ur friend does.

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    • holy_intruder

      /bump

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  • babylady

    Its normal for you to worry, but honestly, if he is such an ass, she will figure it out eventually. I would advise not doing anything about it directly, because anything negative you say or do, will reflect badly on you, like you are just trying to make him look bad. He will slip up, and if you play it cool, you will be the one who ends up there for her in the end.

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  • seakelp

    I think you're just jealous. Just because she likes him more than you doesn't make him a bad person.

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  • itmehninz

    Ok I think this is so sweet how you care for her the same thing happened with me and my boyfriend but I ended up dating the bad guy first, having my heart broken, and then being treating well by my bf! Ask her out u said she liked u so go for it!!!

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