Is it normal to be ok with waiting?

Ok well I am 18 and my girlfriend is 15. I really like her and I would do anything for her. She wants to wait to have sex and honestly im ok with it. I guess what I am really asking is is it normal for it not to matter to me. I hear my friends say it bothers them after like a week.

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Based on 371 votes (302 yes)
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Comments ( 16 )
  • zchristian

    Do it when you are ready not when someone else tells you to...

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    • Ugh69

      Fuck that, you shut up bitch!

      To the poster, NO, its not normal. Give it to him when he's ready you prude. Quit being a bitch! Keep waving that carrot, and that bunny's gonna bite!

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  • joybird

    Anything worth having is worth waiting for!

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  • chadams

    If I were you I would wait. She is underage. You can go to jail. And have to register as a sex offender for the rest if your life It's not worth it.

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  • BluntsRolled

    I think its cool to wait, as long as your not waiting while another guy is scoring.

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  • Princess1989

    It's perfectly normal and sweet

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  • hemper

    Yes definitely, your relationship is between the two of you and don't let society make you do things you regret. You guys will be ready when you are, then you'll have the time of your lives :P

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    It doesn't matter what your friends say. Besides right now they may also be setting low standards.

    It's OK to go slowly. Sometimes the slow path gives you the most rewards

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  • Ugh69

    When he is ready you need to be understanding of his feelings. What are you waiting for? You are just being presumptuous and pretentious. If you are not careful his tired hand will be substituted by the crotch of another girl- someone better looking and thinner than you.

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  • Hidden355

    Haha! You sir, are me 2 years ago! Im still with my sweetheart to this day ( im 20 shes 17 ) and we're still waiting for that time but believe me its worth the wait. Its not like its sex or nothing. Experiencing all the little things along the way are awesome and Not to mention you become very comfortable with one another. I consider myself lucky and you should too! Happy trails ;)

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  • normalfeet

    Good for you and your gf. Your giving her time to think about what's she's going to do, that way she doesn't end up with any regrets. Forget what your friends say, when they end up with herpes they'll wish they waited

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  • ChasingAfterPond<3

    I wish there were more guys like you in the world(: you sound like a really sweet guy and your girlfriend is very lucky to have you(:

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  • Lucyg123

    Law
    Um go with your heart she doesnt want to pergant
    Cool wait ageist peer perussere
    I sound really old

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  • hmvsummer

    well.. it's illegal sooooo... you don't really got too many choices do yah.

    & i don't really understand how you are considered sweet, since you are an 18 year old guy dating a little 15 year old! i know 3 years isn't actually a big age difference, but when its 15 & 18 it is..

    it's good to be ok waiting, because obviously you should respect the persons choice that you are with..

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    • ChasingAfterPond<3

      What problem is there with a 3 year difference? What if they started dating before he turned 18? The age difference could be much different. I had a cousin who started dating a 22 or 24 year old when she was 16, and she ended up getting pregnant. She has two kids now and is 19. It is sweet and nice that this guy wants to wait. And being 15 years old would not make her a little girl, especially in todays world.This guy is very respectful towards his girlfriend and she is lucky to have him because it is very hard to find a good guy that isnt trying to pressure a girl into having sex.

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    • assdfghjkl

      It is not illegal if he lives in a "Romeo & Juliet" Law state where three years age difference is okay.. .

      and (assuming he does) it's sweet that he cares enough about her to respect her wishes. It's tough to find nice guys these days!

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