Is it normal to be obsessive with your ex?

Okay so my boyfriend and i have recently broken up because of a lot of issues, but the main issue was my obsessive behavior with him. When we first started dating i was never like this. up until an incident happened were i was hearing rumors about him flirting with another girl. he did not actually do this. so after that everything went back to normal or so i thought until i started wanting to control the situation. is this some resentful obsession?

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Based on 43 votes (28 yes)
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  • Aless

    its normal because its a reaction of yours BUT you need to communicate this perhaps you both did not trust in eachother enough to show or say how you felt or what was going on NEVER go on speculations theyre not facts and waste precious time for the future just ask in a calm and constructive way :)

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    • Hettyy

      ok thank you for the advice :)

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  • rekltalni

    I'm obsessive with my girlfriend and I love it when she's like this with me. It's a completely normal reaction to the rumors, woman. Don't worry. Just don't be too obsessive if he doesnt enjoy it, it might cost you the relationship.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    I'm obsessive with guys I've never met...so I guess it's okay.

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