Is it normal to be obsessing with a few movie/tv characters?

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So the movie/TV characters I'm like in love with (in a way lol) are William Cooper from RED, Reaper from Doom, Michael from And Soon the Darkness, (I love Karl Urban by the way) and Aaron Hotchner from Criminal Minds. I know Hollywood comes up with these characters for lonely girls like me to fall in love with, but seriously I can't imagine myself liking anyone else. I'm not kidding. When I picture myself with someone (and I'm not talking about some sex fantasy lol so don't get carried away) I picture one of these characters. Not just because their actors are incredibly gorgeous, but because their characters are just so perfect. They're heroic, mature, smart, brave, and loving. I've never met anyone that remind me of these characters so I consider these characteristics to be nonexistent in the real world. I mean seriously I turn down guys because they don't remind me of these characters. I can't stop thinking about them. Especially the Karl Urban characters because they're a bit younger and closer to my age. Anyway I'm like in love with these men and I don't know how to get realistic and accept that these characters aren't real. Well I know they're not real, but I can't stop to hope that someone wioll make a liar out of me. It's like I need them to be real. I don't think I can settle with anyone less.Is this normal?

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  • rxstlesswxves0
    2 years ago

    Hotchner is sexy I totally understand

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  • Enizzle
    12 years ago

    Jaime Lannister.

    The people you named are worthless.

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  • GrimDoll
    12 years ago

    I'm obsessed with all the characters from True Blood. I think they're all gorgeous. There's nothing wrong with fantasizing about characters but remember it's all make believe. If you keep comparing people irl to the characters, you'll never find anyone worthy. Maybe you should find someone who shares the same love for your shows and you can do some nonsexual character role play, it might help.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It's normal but extremely unhealthy.

    Your intent is good but trying to find fulfillment for it through these idealized characters is the expression of futility.

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