Is it normal to be obsessed with someone i'm in love with

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I am absolutely in love with this girl I know. We have known each other for about 3 years but have never gone out. I have never felt this way about anyone before and I feel like I'm obsessing. I just CANT stop thinking about her and I stalk her life life like crazy on facebook. I mean, i probably think about her more than anyone else i know. Is it normal to think about someone so much?

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  • xoxochick
    10 years ago

    Yes it's normal you should tell her how you feel.

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  • neopythagorean
    14 years ago

    Think of it this way: would she be freaked out by the amount of "recon" work you're doing on her? If so, then the verdict is NOT NORMAL.

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  • x6tence
    14 years ago

    yup ur the srs type tell her u appreciate n admire everything shes doing might start a good way of making a confession

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    That's totally normal.

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  • freebirdd
    14 years ago

    I have the same problem but what I'm doing is just staying friends because if you date then break up u will never talk to this person again most likely and it's more fun to be friends

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  • Diviner
    14 years ago

    Just tell her how you feel. But don't tell her your stalking her... Trust me, it'll make everything better

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  • bazwell
    14 years ago

    I guess it's normal to think about someone you are attracted to or "in love with" all the time. I would suggest that you spend less time following her life so closely, because that might feed your curiosity and fantasizing, but do nothing for the real issue here...which is your feelings for her (but the facebook stalking sounds kinda sorta creepy). Take the time to reflect upon why you are so attracted to her and what a life with her (and one without her) would truly and realistically be like. Then if you decide that you want her in your life, go for it. If not, direct your energies in other more productive and rewarding areas!

    best of luck to you!

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