Is it normal to be obsessed with rough anal sex?

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I'm 19, a guy. The second time I ever had sex was with a girlfriend who was quite open about sex and wanted to experiment( We both were virgins for our first time). We were extremely drunk and high[cross] ( and I mean EXTREMELY), and the idea of anal sex came up. Neither of us had any idea what to do it properly (lube/anal foreplay/etc.) so I just went for it, tbh like i'd seen in porn., which I deem was quite roughly. At the time, I'm guessing since she was drunk, she didn't ask me to stop or anything, however, the next day she told me that it was hurting alot.
Ever since that incident I have been obsessed with anal, and not just anal but rather rough anal. I even broke up with a girl because she wouldn't let me do anal. So much so, that I dont even enjoy normal vaginal sex AT ALL, and every time I have sex I have it in my head to somehow convince the girl to have rough anal.
Any advice on how to stop this obsession? Because, I doubt I'll find a girl willing to let me have rough anal.

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  • Cheese123
    10 years ago

    Maybe because it was your first time and you loved it, so you pair the pleasure with the act,

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    I hope some big guy gives it to you up the ass!!!

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  • Welshfaye
    10 years ago

    Harsh! Remind me not to fuck you :p

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  • trinity69
    11 years ago

    Help me find anal shawty in gh pls.....

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  • Phycokitty
    11 years ago

    My phone wont let me hit reply. and why not maybe im just weird but i aske these thing bc why get into a romantical type relationship with someone you arent sexualy compatable with and if they are ofended by my asking then they definatly arent my type

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  • Phycokitty
    11 years ago

    i know a few girls into it me being one of them

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I think the search is the real problem, rather than there being a lack of girls who would be into it.
      It isn't exactly easy to say "Sooooo, you into rough anal?" when you're getting to know someone.

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  • Antimacy
    11 years ago

    Bad luck

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    maybe learn how to do anal properly first, then get a girlfriend that you want to be with, then gently suggest anal (using websites that show how pleasurable anal can be for women)

    Once you have convinced her to try it you will have to go gently and let her enjoy it, then after a few times try it a bit rougher.

    If you're ever wondering WHY people aren't into rough anal, grab a dildo (even a small one), cover it in lube, then stick it up your ass. If you pussy out and move it gently and still hurt when you're done, then you'll know why the bottom hates it. You can do SO much damage it isn't even funny (including tearing open the skin inside the anus making it BLEED, and damaging the rings of muscle at the entrance, making it difficult to walk for days).

    Actually you know what? the dildo idea might turn you off it. Try it.

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