Is it normal to be obsessed with my number of sexual partners?

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I went through my late teens not really caring, thinking sex is just sex. Fun for both parties involved. But somewhere along the line, it started to really bother me and I can't stop obsessing over my number, and her number, and his number, and what he and she and that other guy would think if they knew my number, and how high it might get by the time I want to settle down, and what happens if I meet the love of my life, and he tosses me because my number's too high... etc etc.
Call me over dramatic, but it's beginning to affect my quality of life, lol. I'm probably going to sleep with a couple more guys by the time I'm married or whatever, but I'm holding out on dates and talking to guys because I'm convinced they'll want to sleep with me, and I like it so much I won't say no if we have the slightest bit of chemistry..

Does anyone else think about these things? Or even about your significant other's number of partners?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I'm not going to judge your behavior. However, I will say that you should get to know people before you end up sleeping with them. This cycle of meaningless sex seems to have made you paranoid of people's intentions towards you. Try holding out for awhile on the sex and see what it is like to have sex with someone you love, not someone who's convenient. Who knows maybe that way you'll have a better chance of finding love.

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  • Iwbigdog
    12 years ago

    The more the merrier!
    It's horny as f££k that you love cock.
    I'd happily have a relationship with a girl like you and let her keep having fun....
    Oh yeah, I'm already in a relationship like that. Lucky me x

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  • Dazzie
    12 years ago

    Don't worry about it! Just don't go around opening your legs to every guy you meet. You're doing fine worrying but you are overreacting. You can have sex with anyone you're comfortable enough with. Make sure you use protection and that you know their names. Your future partner/husband will not worry about how many people you had sex in the past if they really love you.

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  • Gelmurag
    12 years ago

    I don't think for most guys number matters. As long as its under 100 or so. Personally, as in me myself and I, I wouldn't do it with anyone if her number was over 3. But my reasoning for that is varied and involves a rant. My cousin prefers girls over 5. So even within the same family line there are differences on preferences. And once you find the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with it won't matter.

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  • stardustisawsome
    12 years ago

    It shouldnt bother him i he really loves you, Plus that a thing of the past there nothing he can do about it, but dont marry a virgin cause that will just be sad.

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  • ishitpandas
    12 years ago

    I am too lol

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  • JustDave
    12 years ago

    Kind of late in the game to be worrying about it now.

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  • gliscor12345
    12 years ago

    Its fine to me.

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