Is it normal to be obsessed with a boy who has no interest in you?

Okay, so I like this boy a whole lot. We used to be cool and now it's like whatever. The bad part is the feelings we had for one another just left him and i was stuck with them. I see him everyday and my heart just DROPS ! We are friends kind of but that's not the relationship i want to have with him. On top of that, he likes my best friend! I know she doesn't like him at all but feelings can always change. I just want to know what do I do ?

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  • Hurley19

    It's perfectly fine to like someone, even if you don't know why. I'll admit, one of the hardest thing to realize is when you like someone who doens't feel the same way about you. My question to you is, does he know you still like him? Let him know. I'm a guy, so unless the boy you like is a player or just really picky, if he liked you in the past, he proably still like you now to some extent. My bet is that he might have gotten a mixed message from you somehow, and thought that maybe you weren't intrested in him.

    To be blunt, let him know how you feel, and if you confirm that he really isn't intrested in you at all, at least you don't have to keep wondering. As a bummer as that might sound, it'l save you a lot of heartache if you just bring it to his attention sooner rather than later.

    Just remember this, the best things in life happen on accident, so whatever happens, I have confiendce in telling you that'l it will work out for the best.

    Best of luck to you!

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  • google how to make someone fall inlove with you... its the best honestly after reading it you find out that its not puppy love its just you falling for the IDEAL that you CREATE, subconcounce criteria and concience criteria.

    it also explains why people dont like other people...

    you dont have to buy it ill give you a recap:
    people dislike others if they display flaws that they have them selves.

    they LIKE people that display qualities that they have or want to have magnified,

    they also don't like to be chased...
    if your really going to chase this boy...

    remember the most pathetic thing in the world is to chase a man... that will make you keep yourself in check.

    the real advice... do your homework fidn out what he likes BUT DONT BE OBVIOUS cause all these things you like coincendentally he likes he will catch on and be even more turned off.

    the key words in your post: he likes your friend but she could care less... you like him but he could careless.... its a vicious cycle good luck just remember what you just read.

    p.s. dont be so available, always leave him wanting more, always look your best, smell your best, and do NOT be a negative Nancy always be positive and upbeat.... our little sullen boys hate sullen girls, cause people with broken wings want people that can fly...

    do you get it now... remember have alot going for you, if not pretend it, to be so.

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  • alv1592

    i've had that situation before, it sucks. i know it hurts, but the best thing to do is try to forget about him and move on.

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  • Guys aren't a complicated specimen. They aren't especially attracted to any one person as a woman might be so in a sense he does like you.

    Love is a battle not some dance agreed upon. It's a struggle that's won only through unyielding determination to get what you want so don't be discouraged if he doesn't take immediately.

    My advice: ask him out and pester him until he says yes. If you really want something you won't let anything stand in your way.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Green grass anyone

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  • Zevichan

    Go for it! When I first met my hubby he was interested in another girl, and she in him. So, I played my cards right, pushed her out, and we've been happily together ever since (6 years).

    That being said, be subtle about it, respect he has feelings for another girl, but then show how much better you are! Flirt with him, give him hugs, physical touchings (not sexual) can go a long way.

    It's really not hard to sway a man's interest if he's not in a relationship with someone yet.

    Keep in mind if he does end up going out with another girl, you'll need to back off so you come off as the creepy stalker girl. Ya know?

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  • Nichosv98

    Idk I like women

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  • becky7486

    Chances are you'll like
    More than one boy in your lifetime that doesn't like you
    It's a part of life

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