Is it normal to be obsessed over a guy who has a gf?

I have liked this one guy for like 3 months and I really REALLY like him. I know it because when I found out he had a gf I stayed in my room and cryed for 2 days and wouldn't eat. I don't know ifhe likes me too.... he stares at me sometimes... I want to forget about him, but I can't. Sometimes when I close my eyes I even see his face! Is this normal?

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Based on 57 votes (39 yes)
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  • Gigglefries

    No this is normal. Im a guy and im basically in the same situation.

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  • nelfdrood

    You might need meds.

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  • Sweetz

    There is always some one who feels this way about another. Have you ever stopped to think if there is a guy who secretly feels this way towards you. This always happens in movies.

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  • Dad

    Kill her.
    Wait, no, better to find someone who doesn't LOVE someone else, don't you think?

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  • chatter289

    if you liked him so much why did you not ask him out? Or was he already in a relationship when you started liking him.

    I think you should keep yourself busy honey, pick up more hobbies and don't read too much into him staring at you, everyone looks at everyone and it does not immediately imply that they may like you like you. You will only drive yourself insane.

    Good luck :)

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  • Caryopteris

    It's normal. It is a developmental stage and you will live through this. We all got painful crushes on people we couldn't have, especially when we were young. This is life. Enjoy nice, private fantasies and understand that you will be most interesting when you are involved in something that is important to you and guys can observe you and you grow on them. Then they will ask you out and you can pick and choose who you would like to get to know.

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  • rita_marie

    Im kinda in the same place right now but when I found out he had a girlfriend I just said damn, well that's it I need to move on. But its easier said than done. Its normal

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