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hi all is it normal not to be horny after spending an evening watching tv with one partner ,basically i feel ignored all day and evening and then when bed time comes she wants sex but i cant be bothered
If you feel ignored by the person and so don't feel attracted to her natural.. I am a horny guy though, I can have sex without feelings ( :-D ) but may be feelings mean more to you.. Its normal
Maybe because you feel ignored all day you don't want to give her sex when bedtimes comes. If she didn't ignore you maybe you would be horny. Not enough details to say if this is normal or not :p
You two need to talk about this. Lack of attention and conversation is messing with your intimate time. Which is normal. But it should be resolve sooner than later don't let this to affect or ruin ur relationship. :)
I have this problem with me and my fiance now. I am about 2 years older than he is and he is horny most of the time and I have a hard time to get intimate with him. Once we get started everything is ok, but leading up to it is a problem. We have tried everything to fix this. We found that if we just spend time together whether it be a walk around the block, watching a movie, even walk around wal mart together helps us to talk and feel closer after a long day then sex is easier.
I would suggest just taking a walk or something to show her that you are still there.
Your a man! Give sex, it's the most important human instinct no need to fight it, and if she was being a bitch, tell her how you feel after the sex
If you want that to change then do little bits of foreplay through out the day. People don't always get horny out of nowhere. Touch her or kiss her or say something like. "Lets watch a movie while laying in bed. I'll be inside you so we can be closer. We don't have to do anything." She'll want to. Works on me everytime, and I totally know what he's up to. I'm not in the mood at the time. But I get to be pretty quick lol. Or you know, shower with her and rub her a little. If she says no, just say there's no strings attached, you just want to play a little. It gets it on her mind ;)
Maybe you are a queer. Try sucking a cock or getting it up the ass and see if that turns you on.