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I have had no problem to talking to guys I like or anyone but when it comes to him I get nervous, Idk why but I really like him hes gonna be there today so hopefully I wont get nervous... I dont know though what do you yall think?
I know they're probably unrelated but this reminds me of a post yesterday about a girl who got tongue-tied and rolled on the bed and bit her hand and said "Eek! Eek! Eekems!" when she was nervous. I genuinely think more people should take that approach because I was completely in love just from that one post, and I don't even know who she is.
I dont Know if this is wierd but i think when girls are nervous they just seem cuter.
Aww. It's normal to be nervous when you talk to someone you like. Although you shouldn't be, they're a person just like you.
Dogs smell fear and nervousness, once they smell is they use it to their advantage. Relax yourself and at the end of the day he is just 'another' guy and you're only talking to him so.. relax, what do you have to loose? good luck
thats normal, honey! also happens on me! i sweat and my heart just like............ u knw the sound. and i cant stare his eyes for so long. but when i do, i really stare deeply. i love him. so much.
I'm glad to hear it bc my gf's still sort of nervy with me. She was much worse for the first mth or so and comes out with a lot of weird stuff that really confused me , still is.
Funny she's quite a strong girl in life and she's a tough cookie too but some of the things that get out come in a form of cracks or as if she doesn't care or defensive.
She admitted she often just blurts out of the top of head and doesn't mean it the way it comes out.
She wasn't like that when we were just friends before for a few mths. My sister reckons but then it didn't matter to her where as now it does so she's guarded and become a bit self conscious.
I'm finally starting to get it and so now I've found my new patients instead of getting pissed of and taking cracks the wrong way has made a huge difference with her.
This might be in my head but I'm sure she feels more secure with me now bc I've stuck with it and she's starting to believe inside that maybe I really do love her after all- which I do .
Maybe she was evene testing me subconsciously as a few people suggested , not sure but with the changes I'm seeing just since my new attitude , loven her to bits.
All it takes is twenty seconds of courage!
From the movie 'we bought a zoo' it's a good one! *imo*
You've probably built him up to be something pretty special in your mind, more special than he actually is in all reality. Try conditioning yourself to think of him as if he were a brother or close friend, in a NON-sexual way of course (don't let yourself fall into fantasy-like daydreams where you two are together and everything is rainbows).
If you are afraid of his rejection of you, then it is a little more simple to deal with: People who get to know you a little, and then reject you, are not worth your time. You don't want to adjust anything about yourself to match what you think he might want in a partner because it might temporarily work, but it WILL eventually come off as fake and he'll know it. Once you realize that, you'll be free.
You will always feel a little apprehensive around those you have a crush on, but as you gain confidence in yourself, you'll know that you are worth putting yourself out there.